After 6 months of a break up with a girl I was suppose marry but I personally messed it up since I got cold feet for a long time and also some personal issues and eventually she broke it off. I was heart broken, but part of me didn't think she wasn't the one. After 6 months I meet a girl at first didn't think much of I thought she was shallow and not exactly my type but she ended up changing for me and becoming a pretty cool girl, I love spending time with her, talking and discussing things etc. But I still didn't think she was the right one, we have only been dating 2 months. I ended up going on a date with another girl and she caught me after the date and left since I had a similar situation also. She said I don't apprciate her or feel she is "the one" and why I did that. There is some truth in that. I feel lots of emotions for here, but wonder if there maybe a better fit for me psychically and personality wise. But I started to feel a lot for this girl, but I don't know. Shes gone now and feel anxious and sick about the whole thing. I am not sure if letting her go was right thing. What would a stoic think of this situation. I have been studying stoicism for 6 months helped me through my relationship. Dicothomy of control would mean I do have some control over this sitatuion now.