I’ve buried two friends, one from suicide and one from natural causes (thought to be heart attack due to drug use) and now found out one of my previous coworkers was found dead in his car shot.

Honestly I don’t know how to even begin to understand how stoicism can help deal with mourning. Curious as to what can be done or even think in this aspect.

Also side note not necessarily part of the question. But I got cheated on as well while I was trying to get through the grief process.

All of this to say it was honestly just one year of shit and now having my coworker die kind of sparked what that one year of honestly the worst luck time ever. Whether it was because I couldn’t burry him properly, or if it was the fact that he is still considered an unsolved homicide.