Bio mom lost custody because of drugs and pure lack of care for anything other then obviously her self.

It’s been 9 months of SUPER inconsistency. On the phone call it’s, oh buddy I’ll come see you tomorrow. She never shows. Although we asked her not to make plans directly with him MULTIPLE times. She doesn’t even have an excuse because we offered to supervise the visits (when she had supervised visits) and even go as far as offering to pick her up but that wasn’t good enough for her I guess I don’t know because she only took the offer once.

We basically cut most of the contact because nothing was changing and she lost legal and physical custody of him in February. She just messaged and asked if she can come over and see him etc etc. asked us to pick her up because she misses him. She said she was going to court a few weeks ago….the same court who took custody I don’t know what use that’ll do unless she decides to go to family drug court and counseling 🤷🏽‍♀️🫣

I’m trying to contain my anger. She won’t listen to what we are trying to say and honestly it isn’t our job. I’m really trying not to be mean to her but I’m to a point where we just don’t care anymore and aren’t sticking out neck out for her anymore. We have probably gave her more then anyone else would have given her especially if he was in foster care and there wasn’t any contact or visits on the order!!!!!

Any other person would say, go to rehab and get your shit together. Right!?!???

Get a damn job get a car get your damn life together like holllllyyyy crap.