After having talked about my fantasy to my wife about sharing her we had a few discussions about it. She seemed fine with flirting and showing off to other guys however when we finally had a discussion about what we were comfortable with we had an impass. She was for it but in more of having long term relationship, I however was more for her to just have some short term fwb from time to time or random type hook ups as I'd not want her to be more attached with another guy. We haven't spoken about it much other then she does tell me if guys are checking her out or gets hit on. Wondering how or if I should bring it up and try to work though what she would want out of it and get over my own insecurities.