41/m 42/f couple

We got started in the lifestyle in our mid 20’s we used condoms when we played with others. About a year in we had a party at our house and a close friend of mine stayed over on the couch. Earlier that night he adjusted her back(Chiro) and commented to me low key on her nice shape.

That night my wife and I were in our room having foreplay and having some dirty talk about my friend(good looking) and what he said. She was flattered and turned on. I asked if I should go get him. She was horny and gave the green light. I went down and he was asleep. I woke him up and told him and he seemed shocked and groggy. I said it’s cool but it’s likely now or never. He passed kinda no answered really.

I went upstairs alone…said he was asleep. Within 2 min a door knock and he came in. He didn’t waste much time and dropped his pants and she was sucking him immediately.
I sat up in the bed and she sucked me while he put on a condom. He got behind her slide it in. After a minute I could see he wasn’t thrilled with the condom. He pulled it out and was looking down at it and gave me a look of you have to be kidding me with the condom. So I said is it the condom? He said yes…I asked her if he could take it off. She agreed and he was a totally different person raw.

This went on for a few years a few times a week. We had a house with roommates so a lot of times we would be in the basement. I would wait on the stairs and watch the door while they had sex on the couch.

Since we had to sneak around a lot of times it was her giving him a quick primer BJ to get him hard. Then just bending her over pulling her pants down to her knees to get him in there. He would quickly pump and usually cum in her mouth to swallow. This was fairly regular and we would plan our sex life around his availability during the week. I wanted her ready whenever he wanted it so we didn’t miss the chance. We both wanted him to be interested so he got first dibs at his choice…he didn’t know that though lol.

The roommates had their suspicions but it was my house. She would meet him solo sometimes but preferred me being there because it was more fun.

He was kinda of a fast cummer so a lot of times my wife and l would laugh about it after. Unfortunately he always wanted to do facials and not creampies. Sometimes he would just want a BJ. Which was lame but he would usually fuck anyway.

At the time it was a little disappointing but looking back I didn’t realize how good we actually had it. We still talk about it when we have sex for fun.

After a few years it fizzled but that’s a whole different story. We have been hoping for another long term guy but as you all know they are hard to keep. We had hoped it would be a lifetime option but that’s life