I have no where else to talk and rejoice, soni figured I'd do it here.

Last year I confided to my wife that I wanted to share her. We had a few talks at the beginning, took some baby steps, but then for the longest time it felt like I was carrying the torch solo. I was making jokes/ comments every so often but felt like I was pressuring her too much and decided to go a month without saying anything (I kept a record of everything I wanted to say though for later)

Then the other night happened.

I got home from work and she pretty much pounced on me (which was already unusual and very much welcomed). I eagerly ran with the situation, but decided to let her lead... and was rewarded oh so much. She not only 'threw it back' for the first time in doggy (a position she normally doesnt choose) but during our makeout break put on 'Planet Sex' from Hulu, and instead of finishing the episode we were on went to the 'Monogamish' episode.

Annnnd, she ok chatting with a local 3rd! ... It didn't go anywhere as our life got busy right after we sent 'hello' but still!!!

I can't believe how lucky I am, and am kicking myself for not tempering my eagerness sooner.

So to the future/wannabe stags reading this listen to the prevailing advice: let her come to it on her pace not yours. It's so worth it