Guarding Her Heart

We are a Male Dom Bi / Female Sub Str8 couple. Both of us late 40s. That's a mouth full. 😉 How about Male/Female, Dom/sub, Bi/Str8 couple? Whatever.

I am very attracted to her and her to me. And we have had lots of discussions about what we've read on other subs. StagVixen subs. Polyamory subs. 3some subs. Married and Bi subs. And the vast majority of the time we are reading about things falling apart. Wives leaving cuckolds for Bulls. Jealousy in the hearts of sad women who have no one to ask for advice because there best friend and lovers, loves someone else.

We are both older and carry extra weight. Not gonna lie. We are not porn stars. But what we lack in curb appeal we make up for with exuberance. 😁 She's a Rockstar and I have a bit of a party favor. So we do all right with the guys we have chosen. A little too good sometimes, resulting in a short session. 😋 Anyway, we both love our guys. We don't live together or demand they be monogamous to us, just that they stay clean and healthy.

But the purpose of this essay is to talk about Love and guarding Her Heart. We could absolutely pull guys who are bigger than me. Younger and stronger. Better looking. Maybe even all of those things AND a bigger dick. 😳 And I am certain she would have no intention of falling away from me but, I also don't think she could avoid it.

I could also look for some super sexy tranny or even a bombshell lady with tig ol' bitties and a love for old guys with thick cocks. But why would I do that? Why would I put anyone in the room who would draw my eye away from the Love of My Life?

Because neither of these theoretical people has 30 years of history with either of us. Any new person, no matter how sexy, doesn't know us like we know us. Has held us for decades while we laughed and cried. In sickness and in health. Has devoted their lives to either of us. Who would unquestionably lay down their lives for us, like we know we would for eachother.

So, as the husband, the Dom, the MAN who takes responsibility for our lives and our hearts, I pick our boyfriends. I am very Female attracted, but I will fuck men. She is straight as an arrow and loves cocks. A few at a time is best. So boyfriends it is. And not sexy petite super fems with silicone in all the right places. Because she is definitely not attracted to that. And also because I DO find that attractive and distracting.

She is blindfolded. Or at least in a lace mask. It's beautiful. It feeds her kink. And it limits her vision. She's not looking anyone in the eyes but me. Our guys don't speak directly to her, but only through me. I have always cum in her last. My fat cock pounding their cum into her, adding to it, spashing it out of her. Driving her to a harder orgasm, because it's Me. And I'm in fucking charge.

Our guys are masculine. But not aggressively so. Young and cute, but not feminine. Endearing to her and obedient to me. They call me Sir. The most difficult thing has been finding guys who were equally in to both of us. Not too gay. Not too str8. Wanting a BBW and a meaty cock. 😘 The rest is up to us. And you can read a few examples of our sexytime in other threads. Suffice it to say, everyone has a good time. 😋

This may not be the rule but: Cuckolds give thier wives away and don't understand when they get left behind. Poly husbands want to bring in their wives cute friends to fuck only for their wives to become distant and dejected. Bi men want to fuck men to the exclusion of their wives. These things are painted across every forum, every subreddit out there. A cacophony of failure.

Hopefully we're different right? Hopefully the guardrails I have built around us will keep us safe. We talk every day about our fantasies, dreams, and concerns. Every word discussed and defined. No tiny seed is allowed to fall between us and grow into anything that would keep us a part. The connection between our hearts is the most precious aspect in our lives.

I want the same astonishing happiness for you. All it takes is everything. But, if you go all in, you get everything in return. And you get to keep the girl. And most importantly, she WANTS you to. 🥰