Hey there Reddit! Just as a preface, given that we are posting in a general subreddit, we are looking specifically for people who live in the Seattle metro area, and are either single or ENM.

We're an experienced ENM couple (37 Asian female, 37 white male) who have had experience ranging from starting out as swingers, ranging to poly and have ended up more finding lots of joy in dynamics involving another guy, especially guys who enjoy playful games and banter, and have some general interest in a sharing dynamic (hopefully you at least have some interest if you're looking for a connection here). In a perfect world, an ideal match would be interested in building a friendship (some level of friendship with both), and looking for initially a situation similar to FWB, with emphasis on the friends part. And looking for ideally something ongoing in nature.

If you're looking for a way to stand out in your response, the following point is generally more important than age/looks or other factors. When looking for an ideal FWB/ongoing situation, we're looking for someone who enjoys playful games and she's also got a soft spot for witty/playful banter. Our last successful reddit post was looking for a friend to play wordle with, and the reward for beating the two of us was a blowjob from her ;). This kind of play wouldn't be just limited to wordle, but could be say: Mario Cart or board games with sexy states on the line, ongoing D&D compaigns with sexy storylines, or any other playful exchanges that come to mind. She enjoys being playfully shared/desired by multiple partners and being able to outlet that in 1-on-1 and group settings. Ideally any matches would be comfortable with, or at the very least interested in both.

Good candidates for friends ideally would:

• Be single, CNM/ENM, not-cheating male, 21-42 years old Located in Seattle Metro Area (preferably north Seattle, Eastside)
• We’re located north of Seattle about 10-15 minutes out Lake City to the North, open to people all over the general metro Seattle area, but have found it easier to maintain ongoing friendships within a 30 minute drive (and a friend within biking distance on the Burke Gilman would be amazing!) *STI/STD free and willing to provide recent STI documentation (recent STI results will be presented to you as well)
• Kind, nonjudgmental demeanor
• Experience or at the very least interested in a MFM/MMF group dynamic
  

Ideally messages would have most/all the following:

• A little bit about yourself
• What you find interesting about this post, any shared interests.

The most likely to get responses, meetups in the past have had:

• Well-considered and articulated responses able to convey a decent personality match as well as compatible interests
• Ability to identify and express some of your desires as it pertains to M F M dynamic as well as to communicate and advocate for your longer term desires and needs. (negotiation & consent is sexy)
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Thanks for reading

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