To those vixens out there I’d like to hear about your experience on how you became open to the stag vixen life. I have been with my wife for over ten years and married for over five of those years. About two years ago I shared with her my desire to watch her in bed with other men or invite another guy so we both can please her, double the attention for her. It was a shock an awe moment for her but it turned into a hot fuck session that night. Well since then I’ve been told many times that will never happen, that sure we can role play it but that’s as far as it will go. I love learning more about hotwife, stag/vixen dynamics and am always eager to talk with her about my kinky thoughts and desires. She had her wild college days of one night stands and Fuck buddies and thinking of her like that drives me wild. I do hold back on the subject as I know I’m only being pushy and working against myself. But this is something I’m so passionate about, nothing sexier then confident women. -So to you vixens out there that were set on a Hard NO when your husbands brought this to you but then over time changed your mind what was it that helped you come to that decision?

With individuals and their experiences so different I know there’s no easy answer for anyone but is there something that stuck out to you that helped you realize this is okay to want since your husband supports and encourages it as well. Im not trying to convincer her of anything but want her to feel open and honest about our sexuality as I am but I feel she may be holding back. Maybe it’s my own desires that cloud how I see her but it’s even hard for her to be open to me if someone on a show or in real life is someone she’d be attracted too. It seems society’s norms of how married couples should be is imprinted in her mind and that’s not okay for a wife to think or feel. I just want her to be empowered and confident especially in the bedroom. I’m okay with us never bringing anyone els into our sex life if that’s our reality. I would just like have the feeling we can have new sexual experiences and that’s okay, we can define our marriage how ever we see fit. -What are your tips to get us discussing more and maybe getting her to understand it’s okay to have her own sexual thoughts and feelings even if they don’t involve me. Any bocks, reading material, games or role play scenes that help your marriage open the doors to new experiences?