We are not new to the LS but have are kinda new to the stag/vixen scene. We have played with a few single males that haven’t lead to any continuous FWB situations. However, our last play partner has really sparked the wife’s interest. He lives out of state and checks a lot of our boxes. They like to communicate via text every few days. She always shares their exchanges with me. Most of the time their conversations are really pretty non sexual. They talk about work and weather, pretty mundane stuff. On the weekends, the conversation heats up a little with some photos and talk about what going to happen on his next visit.

Is this normal? Do your conversations always encompass sex or do you just chat? She likes the mix. I like it more when he’s trying to seduce her.