Obviously SV couple, I (55m) do 95% of the posting. She (32F) will occassionally. Whenever we do, the posts always reflect who is communicating (we versus i want)

That being said, we always find her dates on local subs here. Other than about a thirty or forty percent, no show rate, we have been rather successful until this one small hiccup.

We post on here and anybody that we get a good vibe for gets promoted. And given my cell phone number, i'm told to text me so that we can have either a group phone call or a group text to finalize arrangements and just confirm how we are feeling about the person.

For the first time, we have now entered the problem zone. We were in miami last week.And obviously we're making arrangements for dates a few days before our trip. One guy apparently checked all the boxes and the conversation was appropriate. So I gave him my phone number and told him to text me so that we can continue the arrangements. I proceeded to get a phone call later on at 4 AM. Told him it was a bad time and I would get back to him. Send him a text message later on during the morning and said Hey I wasn't clear but I wanted to exchange text messages. Still, make sure the vibe was right, and then we would move on to a phone call if necessary. No reply for a day or so.And then he called again at 3am. This time I was a little more up front saying, dude, I've told you that we want to do text. Needless to say that he was removed from the list and a good time was had with other people. He called again during our trip and I just blocked him figured, move on. This morning, at four a m I get a phone call from a private number, and I answer and lo and behold, it's him again. So now I kind of lose my shit, I hung up on him. Looked at my call log. He called me twice back to back from his blocked number, and then called a minute later from a private number, which obviously got around my blocking.

I assume we will be stuck with a stalker for a little while