So after years of fantasizing together and many conversations and a couple false starts, My wife and I want to bring another guy into the bedroom for a MFM. But she has one rule that really surprises me. She doesn't want to give oral to the other guy because she says it's two intimate putting a stranger in her mouth. But sex is a-ok.

I don't have a problem with that and respect her decision. But honestly, it's extremely surprising because this girl LOVES sucking me. She begs for it.

I'm a little disappointed though because Im looking forward to taking turns spit roasting her both ways.

I made it clear to her I did not think of it as overly intimate and made it clear it was something I was interested in her doing. Just to make sure that wasn't something she was saying for my sake or whatever.

I guess the question is how do you guys think that affects a night of fun and in your experiences & does that seem to change? I suspect it will but I really really respect her decision and won't change her mind. Just make it clear to her that it's always an option and it would make me happy.