My wife and I have been discussing this lifestyle for a while now. We aren't in the place we would like to reach in our relationship before exploring the lifestyle, and we may never be get there. But it is definitely a kink for us. Our own ideas and fantasies have their own bend to them and may not even be considered a stag/vixen dynamic. We have explored in a few ways. We have a "realistic" toy that I like to watch her use. We have explored playing with it together as well. When we make our little homemade clips I like to film p.o.v. and we use our imagination for the rest. So all that being said I'm just looking for general conversations about the lifestyle, but also to introduce myself and ask for any friendly advice or tips. Especially other ways to explore without taking the leap.