So u/txwife3840 posted about our first experience a couple days ago from her perspective. Today I want to tell you our story from my perspective... My wife and I have been married for 18 years, together for 20 years. We've always had a great relationship and a good sex life. However, for as long as I can remember, all the way back to puberty, I've always fantasized about other guys having sex with my girlfriends, and obviously, eventually, my wife. Well, recently, my doctor put me on tesotrone replacement therapy, and my sex drive went back to puberty like levels. 😆 So, wife and I's sex life had never been better. Well, I figured things were going so great that there's never been a better time to tell her about this kink/fantasy. So, how was I going to do since we didn't always communicate about these things. So I found an article about cuckolding, now obviously it all didn't apply but I had no idea what my kink really even was. So I sent it to her one day while I was at the gym. Told her to read it, and we'd discuss when I got home. I've never been so nervous after sending a text. And of course, when I got home, I didn't get the reaction I was hoping for. She didn't know what to think and actually thought it was my way of trying to have sex with other women. Obviously, that wasn't the case. I had to explain to her that my kink was wanting to watch her be pleasured by another man. No humiliation, no clean-up crew.🤮 just purely for her enjoyment and mine at the same time. I asked her if she really never had any idea. We've used lots of toys over the years, and a lot of time, I'd refer to them as he. When I told her that, she said, "Yeah, I can see that now." Anyway, she's amazing, she said she had no interest in being with someone else, but would do some research and think about it. We eventually came across the stag vixen lifestyle and one definition I read fit my feelings and what I wanted perfectly. Wifey also told me she didn't think any other man would want to be with her.🙄😆 I told her if I posted her picture on reddit, she'd have a ton of guys that would do anything to have sex with her. So after talking for a couple of weeks and watching porn together, sending her clips from reddit, I decided to post a picture in the bbwhotwives sub-reddit. Didn't ask. I just did it and sent her the link. Needless to say, we got a shit ton of responses and chat requests. She obviously loved the response and decided to create her own reddit to start chatting. We made several group chats, and she loved the attention. We started trading pictures. All anonymous pictures, obviously. She kinda got a thing for collecting dick picks and sexting. I got a little jealous at first but also very turned on watching her sext and flirt with other guys. She started opening up to the idea of possibly meeting up with someone. But it was going to be at her pace if and when it ever happened. I started trying to message guys I saw posting from around our area. I found a few, and we started chatting with them. I told them all from the beginning what the deal was. That it was at her pace, and it's possible it might not ever happen. She really started liking the vibe of a guy really close to us, and even said to me that he'd probably be the one when she was ready. So, I sent him a separate message that wifey liked him and wanted him to play more. He hadn't sext any up to that point, and she wanted him to. He said okay and started to a little that day. That evening, he sends us a message that he couldn't do this, and he doesn't like the sexting and teasing and wants to be more involved. So we told him ok, whatever. Hurt wifeys feelings and completely fucked up her plans. Well, it just so happened that the same evening, another guy I had messaged sent a message back letting me know he was interested and he had experience in the lifestyle. Also, he was a patient guy and would never pressure her. So we started chatting with him and getting to know him. She really liked him because he worked with kids and chatted a lot. Also, it didn't hurt that he had a big dick.😆 Anyways, after chatting with him for a couple of weeks, she finally told me she was ready to set a date. So she did. It was about two weeks out. And I couldn't have been more excited and she couldn't have been more nervous. 😜 We counted down the days, we talked about how we both saw the first encounter going down. She gave me her version and I gave her mine. I told her I really wanted her to take control. She said she'd try but was very unsure. Finally the day came. The whole time leading up to the day, we're still chatting with the guy. The day of I had to work until 5:00. We booked a hotel in his town, so it was convenient for him, and when I got off, we packed up and headed to the hotel. We get to the hotel, and I immediately jump in the shower. While wifey starts straightening her hair. I get out, and she is sitting there in a white g-string and black tank top doing her makeup and drinking some wine to get ready. I get dressed and go and take a picture of myself in front of the room number and send it to our guy. I come back and sit in a chair and just watch as she gets ready. Excited and nervous I couldn't believe that in about an hour my fantasy was going to come true. Wifey finishes her makeup and looks amazing. I can't help myself. I get her on the bed and go down her until she cums. We get up and she puts on her heels and outfit that she has on in the picture. She does put her jeans on over her now black g-string that she changed into. We took a picture of both of us and sent it to him, letting him know we're ready and waiting. He sent me a message letting us know he was on his way. We sit and talk and drink waiting until we hear a knock on the door. We look at each other, and I'm pretty sure she said, "Oh shit!".😆 I open the door and let him in. Shake his hand and introduce myself. Wifey gets up and gives him a hug and does the same. He sits down, and I give him a beer. We start chatting for a bit, I start running out of things to talk about, so I keep giving wifey looks to get things started. The plan was when she was ready. She was going to go into the bathroom, lose her jeans, and come out ready to go. It was also my signal to get the phones recording. She kept giving me looks back like she wasn't ready. Just when I thought we were going to run out of things to talk about, wifey gets up and goes to the bathroom. I let him know that, that was the signal that she's ready. So I get the cameras rolling and sit back down and wait. So I'm sitting there waiting, recording on my phone. She peeks out of the bathroom door and quickly goes back in. Finally, she steps out and gives me a nervous smile. She walks around the corner, and he stands up to greet her. They kinda embrace, and he immediately pulls her boobs out and starts sucking on one of her nipples. She looks a little awkward waiting on him. I know she was expecting him to kiss her first so I could tell that's what she was waiting for. He finally makes his way up. They make out a bit while he squeezes and rubs on her ass. He pushes her back a bit so he can slip off his shoes and take off his shorts. He embraces her again, this time with his almost fully erect penis out. Wifey immediately grabs it and starts rubbing it while he kisses her neck and goes back to making out with her. Wifey squats down and takes it in her mouth. She starts working it with her mouth and hand occasionally going down each side with her tongue. I could tell she wasn't comfortable squating, so I told him to sit back down in the chair. He does, and wifey is able to drop to her knees and take it back in her mouth. Working up and down with her mouth and hand. Occasionally, she would look over at me, holding the camera, and give me a little smile. At one point, she stops, blows the hair out of her face, and bites her lip. He ask her what she wants, and she says, "I want you to come on." While giving him a little nod. They get up and head over to the bed. He tells her to get her ass up there, and she said, "No! You get your ass up there." She was taking charge just like I'd hope she would. He climbs on the bed and lays on his back. She climbs on the bed and starts sucking his dick some more. She sits up and throws her leg over to straddle him. She reaches back and puts his dick in her, and slowly slides down on it. She rides him for a few minutes before she has her first orgasm. Then she leans forward a bit and starts grinding down on his dick until she cums again. Next, he grabs her around the waist and starts thrusting from underneath until she orgasms again. They both flip over and get into missionary. He slips it back in, grabs her arms, and starts giving her some harder thrust. He asked her if she/it was ok, and she said yes. He kept going, and she asked for it harder. He obliges until she cums again. At this point, I get a little nervous because he keeps getting going hard for ten seconds or so and has to slow down. I could tell he was already having to try not to cum himself. Wifey rolls over and positions herself in doggy. She gave me a sexy little look because this is what she was waiting for. He re-enters her and she let out a sexy "fuck yes" he starts thrusting hard and I'm loving the way her ass is moving with every slapping thrust. She cums pretty fast in this position. He positioned her in a few different ways while staying in doggy, and she seemed to like most of them. He's also definitely having to pace himself not to cum. He has her sit up and puts a pillow under her stomach. He starts going, and this angle must have hit some good spots because the look on wifeys face changed to an O face immediately. She came really quick and it's a good thing she did, because he had to stop really quick. He pulls out and has her lay flat and put her legs together for some prone bone. This was the position I was looking forward to. I also told him beforehand that this was the position I wanted him to finish in. He puts it back in and starts thrusting in and out hard. Wifey tells him to give her that big dick and he starts going harder. She cums again and he has to stop again to not cum. At this point, he's having to thrust really slow and kissing wifeys back. Wifey could tell he was ready, so she asked him if he was going to give her all his cum. He says yes, and she said, "Give it to me." He asked her if she wanted it, and she said,"Yes, I need it.". He starts pumping in and out, and wifey asks for it harder. He starts going harder and asks wifey if she wants him to cum in her pussy. She says yes. He gives that familiar last hard thrust as he unloads his balls deep in her pussy. He shutters and thrust slowly finishing cumming. I move around with the camera because I want a shot of his cum in her pussy. He pulls out and moves over. I try to get a shot using one hand to hold her open. He grabs the other side and tries to help. I never do see anything. Probably because he came too deep, and I didn't want to stay too long and make it awkward. She gets up and gives him an after sex kiss. He apologies for cumming so fast and tells us he has held his cum for three days. She says it's fine and comes over and gives me a passionate kiss. She was glowing at this point. I could tell she felt accomplished and probably a little relieved that it was over. He got dressed, and we sat there and talked for a five minutes or so before he says, "Let me get out of yalls hair." We shake hands. Wifey gives him a hug and tells him we'll call him. He leaves, and we close the door behind him. Wifey immediately kisses me and starts dragging me towards the bed. I tried to explain to her that I was so focused on filming that I wasn't hard and didn't want her to think that I didn't think it was hot. She didn't care at all. She pushes me on the bed and starts sucking my dick(posted pic). We recap some of the experience while she was doing this. It's was so hot. She does this for a bit, recapping, then starts talking dirty. She told me to get up and come reclaim this pussy. I wasn't going to argue. I was definitely hard at this point and couldn't wait to dump my load in her pussy with his. We go to the edge of the bed, and I enter her from behind. Not quite doggy style because she's standing on the ground leaning over it. I start pumping, and she starts with the dirty talk. I could feel his cum he left behind and it was so hot. She told me to give her mine, and I had no choice. I dumped a big load as deep in her pussy as I could go. I pulled out and was finally able to get a shot of her cum filled pussy. Her g-string was also full of cum so I took a picture of that too. She's really drunk from all the wine and asks if we could get some Taco Bell. 😆😆 I tell her yes. We both get dressed and head to Taco Bell to get her a snack. I couldn't wait to get back so we could watch the video together. We get back to the hotel and go back up to the room. We watched the video together, and I'm asking a ton of questions. By the time the video ends, I'm ready to go again. She told me on the way to Taco Bell that she'd wished he'd lasted longer. So we got going again and we decided to break out the toys. She works her way through the three different toys, all while sucking me off. I get her into missionary and pump another load of cum in her. We lay there and talk for a while before she goes to sleep. I watch the video a couple more times after she's sleeping and have to jerk off to get another load off. When we wake up the next morning, we have sex again before packing up our stuff and heading home. Wifey had to go in at noon, but I was off. I watched the videos pretty much all day. I went through lots of emotions during that day. From thinking this was extremely hot, but also wondering if I had done the right thing, letting another man have sex with my wife, and feeling bits of jealousy. I couldn't wait for her to get home so we could talk about everything more and just be together. Eventually, she got home, and we spent the evening talking and just laying around in each other's arms. We had two more rounds of sex that night before going to bed. At the end of the day, it has been an amazing experience and has made our marriage and relationship so much better. Our communication has never been better. And the love I feel for her has never been stronger. I don't know where this new chapter of our lives will take us, but I know I look forward to every bit of it.

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