I knew about the theory of having spoons to spend throughout the day, etc. I suffer from chronic nerve pain after surgery and radiation, and my energy levels are lower than most people.

One of my best friends is chronically ill and she told me about the spoon theory.

I matched a guy on OKCupid and explained that my energy levels might sometimes make me need to cancel or adjust dating plans, etc. He told me ‘i understand it very well, i have dated some spoonies before and it’s totally okay’. That’s when the bell ringed in my head. Being a spoonie is real!

It’s awesome to even find a subreddit for spoonies. I already feel less alone because this might make it easier to explain to people that while i look very healthy, things are actually more difficult for me.

I hope i can find and give some support on here :)

Y’all have a great day! <3