My wife and I separated and are going through a divorce. We have a two year old in the middle of this all. I tried to be nice and give her 50% we even had worked out days that we agreed on and thats what i filed. I had her served papers, waited for her response which never came in the 20 days, called the court after which nothing had been filed.

23 days after, today, I got a response from a lawyer in the mail and dated paper 22 days late, yesterday, which she is trying to take all but every other weekend away from me with my boy who is my world.

I cannot afford a lawyer.

I don't know what happened we had a good marriage we just weren't as physical as she wanted and she told people we had an open relationship then asked for a divorce.

Now it's messy. I never lied stole cheated nor was I abusive. I worked extra jobs and did everything I could for our family and now I'm being run into the ground and honestly am at my wits end and am barely holding on. If she takes my boy away I will be devastated.

I Cannot afford a lawyer as she took everything I had and am just barely above water now. She's asking for 509 in child support which I cannot afford and I only get my boy every other weekend and one day, Wednesday which I work.

I'm losing my mind and balling my eyes out. I'm lost. I have always tried to be a good guy and help and do what's right, gone to therapy to work out any issues I have had and always, ALWAYS, put her and the kids first.