I have been talking to this woman (Kristina) who lives 3 hours away from me. I was attracted to her mainly for her personality, blue eyes, and dirty blonde hair which for me is a rare occasion for a dating opportunity. We met on an app called wizz and switched over to phone a week later. Me and her talked for months and spoke about seeing each other. I knew she had a son and she talked about getting out of an abusive relationship which is something I could relate to and allowed to bond with her more knowing we understood what a traumatic experience was and we wouldn’t do it to each other. We started sending nudes to each other and video calling on a daily and one day she popped up on TikTok as a private account. I saw her photo was a picture of her and another man and messaged her about it… may I add she said she was single! She replied oh and immediately changed her photo with no explanation, at this point the excitement was gone and I started to slowly ghost her until last week when I responded to a message she sent a few days prior and I was blocked. I checked on TikTok and she was not available and I immediately felt a sign of relief until a few days later she messaged again. She said hi and I replied what’s up and she mentioned she was bored so I asked her if she had blocked me and she said no her data ran out which was suspicious because she never mentioned using data. I remembered her name from a picture of her drivers license she sent me so I knew she was 20 and not 16 or 17(p.s. block out your address and critical information if you ever do this) and looked her up on Facebook. Immediately the 4th person down I found her! I looked on her profile and I saw that the day she blocked me she was with the same guy she supposedly left and I stalked her page and found out she was engaged a year prior. So I played a game… I went and message her and asked “so you were engaged? I saw your profile through a man’s page by the name of Marc. I didn’t message him he was suggested as a friend and I saw you on there.” Immediately im blocked! I messaged her on Facebook telling her she could have been honest and messaged Mark asking if he was with Kristina and he replied “why? Hello?” and she messaged with “leave me and my family alone and you had no right to text him” and blocked me. At this point I was furious for not only wasting my time and months but for cheating on her fiancé of almost one year. So I did what any American would do…. Boston tea party, I spilled the f*****g tea. I told him me and Kristina have been talking for a while and she said she was single and told him everything she said about him and how her son was taken away by him mom supposedly and he said “ok, do you have proof.” Damn it’s over I had deleted everything prior to her blocking me the first time because I didn’t want the memories. I said no and went looking for it and as I’m looking at every app her and I used the only one that had proof was snap and as I went to do the apple screen shot she deleted the chat knowing he was on his way home. I look back at my gallery and find photos of her and the videos she sent of explicit content but by this time he had blocked me out of frustration. Sooooo……. I created a new facebook called catch cheaters and sent him everything saying here’s the proof and went to message her somewhere along the lines of “He has his proof you can not delete everything a Kristina. You could have been honest with me instead of wasting my time. Don’t worry everything is only going to the man who’s supposed to be your husband. I’ll leave your family alone and I won’t cyberbully you. You’re a sorry excuse for a fiancé and I hope you have a good life. Do not ever text me again!” I felt a sense of joy out of exposing a cheater but at the end felt alone yet again and have no partner. I’m 25 and still single with 2 wonderful kids and still looking for my forever partner…. Am I the asshole?😩