Hello. I’m going to try this here with some specifics. I know who I’m looking for is out there but it’s hard to find.

First I’m 28/f living in eastern Ma. I’m looking for a daddy type. A mix of online and in person is ideal. Also open to long term live in, but only under pretty optimal circumstances. My ideal Daddy would be one who is caring, kind, reasonable, but strict. I am naturally submissive and do well when I have a good Daddy making decisions for me, but that takes some time to build up to.

Discipline is my main goal, sex is secondary. Rules around sex/masturbation etc are acceptable and prbably needed, as long as it’s discipline or control oriented. In the past thr DDlg dynamic has worked well, although it can be embarrassing for me and might take some work. Ultimately I do want to follow your rules, but it will take some tough love to get me on track.

A couple of main things I’d like to work on for myself are: being a lot less shy, having less attitude, being more submissive and less bratty.

Some forms of punishment I’ve had in the past that have been effective include spankings (on bottom, thighs, bottom hole, pussy, sit spot etc), grounding, corner time, anal punishments (my least favorite, including spanks, plugs, enemas, ginger, and others). Loss of privacy, loss of privileges, and others. I respond well to both embarrassment and pain. Age wise I act how I’m treated, that part is under your discretion.

I’m also accustomed to regular maintenance, random inspections, and just daily control.

Some limits include: degrading, face slapping, spit, blood, choking, ball gags. If you call yourself master and think you can own me, we aren’t a match. If you want to jump right into the dynamic without any level of trust/knowledge of each other, probably not a match either. You can have control of many aspects of my life as long as you have reasonable expectations.

To be clear, I don’t LIKE being punished, but I do need to be. If you can understand that, you could be the one!

Physically I’m plus size, huge boobs, pretty face. I’m the strong, athletic and active type of plus size,’not the sloppy kind. 5’8”, long light brown hair, blue eyes. I love hiking, swimming, seeing friends, smoking pot, having some drinks, watching tv. Will accept limits on those things if you feel they are needed.