The intention of this sub is for people to find others to meet up with in real life. Posts looking for online fun will be removed. Sellers and scammers will also be removed with users getting bans. If you see any posts like this or have a conversation with a user who turns out to be selling or a fake account/bot, please report the post and/or send a modmail with details.

In order to make your advert as detailed as possible and for the subreddit to be easier to navigate using search, please keep to the title format:

Title: [Age] [Gender4Gender] [Location] General description

For example: 25 F4M Cardiff, Looking for casual fun

Or: 35/33 MF4F Bridgend, Couple looking for other couples for swap

Please include in your post:

You:

• What you're looking for (ONS, Causal, FWB, Relationship)
• Physical description (If you're comfortable share a link to an image or tell people that you have pictures on your profile)
• Can host?
• Will travel?
• Best way to message (DM or chat)

Them:

• Age range
• Gender/s
• Location (how far from you in either time or distance)
• Physical constraints if any
• Do they need to be able to host?
• Do they need to be able to travel?

Other rules:

General stuff, be nice to each other, don't be a dick. If you message someone, there is no need to comment on their post letting them know about this. I probably wouldn't ban people for this unless it happens a lot.

Strictly 18 only. Any posts mentioning underage will be removed.

Again, no sellers please, plenty of other places on Reddit to do that.

As with any r4r subreddit, there will be issues and I'm happy to discuss with users on how to go about trying to solve those. This is only a rough start to this sub, I'm not expecting a lot of traffic so hopefully things should be manageable. If anyone fancies helping moderate, please let me know.