I am an older white woman, whom has been interested in an Indian guy for for a few months, sort of an LDR. I felt we should meet fairly quickly to see what the chemistry was like but he keeps pushing the meeting date farther and farther out. My friends of a diverse backgrounds are saying that if he was really interested he would meet but maybe I don’t fully understand? Am I being gulled? Or should I be more understanding? How long do you wait before meeting someone??? Thanks for the advice. 🤗

Update: thank you everyone, we have parted ways. I’ve been blocked off both apps and I have no way to reach him even if I wanted too.😔I appreciate all the warm support🙏After some recovery I am sure I will be back on Reddit to find someone who will be even better for me. ☺️