At its very core, the idea that being red-pilled is somehow a wakeup call, or funnily enough makes you "woke" to the injustices and biases around you is just a stupid defense and projection mechanism for those who are unwilling to change anything about themselves. Especially for brown / south asian men, this is made even worse by the fact that you're latching on to the idea conjured up by loser goras who have to blame everyone else for their problems.

Red-pilling is based in the notion that nothing is really your fault and that it's the world around you that is stuck in some pre-programmed reality that only you can break out of. Here's the reality of this: your life is what you make of it. Nobody else is stopping you from dating or marrying the person you want, you are. Nobody else is holding you back in your dating life except you. The fact that people on here call Indian / South Asian women race traitors for not wanting to date within their own culture / race is completely laughable, and the fact that most of you in this sub take that as a personal affront is even more absurd. Yet in the same stroke, you'll claim that women of a certain age or who have preferences other than dating YOU are the problem.

If you're overweight, talk to a doctor or a nutritionist. If you have social anxiety problems, talk to a therapist. If you've got confidence issues about anything, just fucking ask someone who looks like they have it together for advice. But if all you're doing is bitching and putting women into some specific subset of person because they have preferences of other men than yourselves, you need to take a look at yourself and see what kind of vibe you're putting out there.

If you're so concerned about your own physical appearance like I've said in other posts, go talk to someone about it. Ask your friends who work out what their tips are.

Redpilling at its core is about projection. It's about not bettering yourselves but trying to take advantage of a system which you believe is somehow built against you. You're not "waking up" and somehow becoming more aware of the environment around you, you're simply building a defensive wall to not have to deal with your own insecurities and then blaming it on another type of person who you feel you can bully through anonymity. I used to actively subscribe to TRP until I realized it was a fucking cesspool of losers and !ncel(s) who have no hope of wanting to change themselves for the better. Why would you want to let yourself get dragged down into the garbage dump of humanity with a bunch of goras who fantasize about the same women they hate so much?