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The odd transition emotions from NP to Solo-Poly
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I'm in the in between part. My husband is still mid-move but my head has already started to make the move to solo-poly. I came home after work yesterday to find that our daughter had moved out right away rather than in 2 weeks, which is cool. My former NP is packing his things up and the place is starting to clear out of his belongings.

Anyone ever watch Teen Wolf? I need to learn to be my own Anchor. He isn't it anymore. Last night he was sleeping in my bed next to me and I was thinking, 'why are you here?'. He is planning on being completely moved out by next Thursday so he still 'lives there' but in my mind, it's already happening. I still love him of course and we are still dating and even have a date scheduled for this coming Friday.

Just some odd musings I suppose. It's pretty exciting to have a clear plan of my future. Outside of our scheduled date nights, I will be on my own. No more relationship escalator, no more wanting to live with other people and then having to take care of them all the time. No more dishes not done, extra laundry that just appears, no more having my meal prepped lunches eaten lol.

My gosh, what will I get up to with all this wild freedom? So many possibilities!

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