Title: How To Heal From Romantic Disillusions?

How do you handle being aware that a perfect person that could fulfill all of your wants and needs is nothing but a fantasy?

I still struggle, from time to time, missing that one person, I still wish this one perfect person existed not only in fantasies, so I would not desire nor need anyone else.

That has always been the hardest romantic idealization, fantasy or illusion to mourn being desillusioned about, specially when we live in a world in which mononormative amatonormativity is expected and pushed "down our throats", basically all the time.

I also have an unhealthy habit of fantasizing and dreaming then feeling bad for things that do not exist or did not happen or cannot happen.

Long story short, how do you cope with desillusions?

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