I have been dating them seperately for a year and a half. They have never met before and would be very unlikely to if I wasn't in their lives.

I haven't been intentionally keeping them apart (much at all 😉). And while much preferring things to be parallel, haven't discouraged meeting.

I'm excited nervous. Mostly they are meeting for their own seperate preferences. If I had a strong preference that they not interact they'd take that into consideration.

Don't think I need advice, but it won't be unwelcome. Do share your similar experiences though please 😁

Edit: I'm a woman and they're both straight men (though one leans a bit more nb but is fine with male pronouns).