39M here and looking for something serious - Ever since discovering my posture as a dominant, I'll never be able to look at relationships the same. I could speak ad nauseum about this. Anyway... The internet seems like a great idea, but golly - you just NEVER know who's on the other side. I can't even begin to describe the gulag I've been through - the time wasted... Somehow stumbled upon this space the other night...

Where did you find your partner?? Any Reddit Success stories on here? I found fet life really difficult to navigate for whatever reason - the app was weird, and I kept on getting notified when guys would check out my profile (lol. NOT my thing). I couldn't adjust that parameter for whatever reason... Also, is anyone on here... spiritual/ religious?

Thanks