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I’m new to being a sub and I am struggling with my emotions. I have already found myself to be falling hard for my Dom. The only issue is I feel him pushing me away often. We have talked about it a bit but with the holidays and other personal situations I feel like I am holding back my feelings because I don’t want to upset him. I never would have thought I could open myself and be so vulnerable with someone so easily but I feel myself holding back now just anticipating him ghosting me or pulling back or ignoring me. He makes me feel so safe and loved I just don’t want to do the wrong thing. Any advice would help. Tia
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I have that same feeling all the time! We are just a d/s dynamic. We never discussed anymore because of the distance between us. I think my inexperience doesn’t help either. We probably should have had more discussion about expectations from the beginning. I have spoken up a little bit and he has always been very receptive. I’m scared to ask for what I want or to express how I am feeling.