Per Episode 34 and what Weezy said at 41:13. If you are going to spend time with someone then make sure it is worthwhile. Not every guy has to be a potential boyfriend. Some dudes are for hook ups, some are friends, some are for dating. Know YOUR role and know THEIR role.

I will say I do think it's immature of Sofia to say that to manipulate men you have to act like you don't care about him the first 3 months. I know she prides herself on dishing "toxic advice" but at some point you have to realize "toxic advice" isn't advice, it's sabotage. (I also think it's interesting how Weezy said Sofia is too nice early on in the episode and Sofia really showed how she can tend to have pushover tendencies while on the subject of making things clear with men).

Stop getting mystified by "potential". What you see is what you get. The time you waste on some loser dude is time spent you can be using to love/improve yourself and entertain people of your caliber. If someone is half-assed in the beginning, then just assume its only going to get worst. Their effort will NOT get better. THERE IS NO GAME YOU CAN PLAY TO CONVINCE A GUY TO LIKE YOU OR TREAT YOU BETTER.

I see so many frustrating posts on here asking about some guy and going in circles, hyperfixating on the most mundane shit and doing tons of mental gymnastics to decipher whether a guy likes them or not. Please understand: They either like you or they don't.

A guy replying to your messages is literally bare minimum. Stop being so willing to give your time, body, and energy to someone who just barely gives you an ounce of attention. There are soooo many people out there who will use and abuse you if given the chance, that's why it is absolutely imperative to set your standards and stick to them.

Hot Girl Summer is right around the corner so please be safe and remember: it's millions of dicks out here🗣️