him: 39, 5’ 7”, 135 lbs. latino. brown eyes / black hair

her: 36, 5’ 3”, 130 lbs. white. blue eyes / blonde

hey SoCal! we’re a HWP & DDF average looking nerdy/geeky couple in an open ENM relationship. we’re relatively new to the swinging lifestyle and looking for other couples for same room sex & swapping. we have experience playing with others and like to roll out with parallel play / same room-no swap first as we start out dating new couples, then we can talk full swap if all goes well and we mesh!

we require verification and an in-person chemistry/vibe-check before playing. something like going out for casual drinks/dinner with a potential couple to see if we mesh before we plan some fun. we’re very friendly, but busy with our professional lives, so weekends are the best time for us to meet & play.

interested in meeting us?

1) introduce yourselves in dm: the most successful couples we’ve dated are the ones who approach us with a little class and understand that we’re not sharing naked photos or endlessly talking about kinks until after we’ve met in person. tell us a little about yourselves and send some basic stats so we know you’re normal (and real!) we don’t respond to blank profiles or low-effort dms (“hey”) without photos- we automatically block them. which brings us to…

2) send photos of the two of you together: helpful way for us to verify you’re an actual couple. we’ll do the same. we take absolutely no offense if we’re not a match. we’re not models or exceptionally attractive and we don’t expect you to be. confidence in yourselves is what’s attractive to us. we are both happy to swap face photos and appreciate your discretion in not sharing them. we’ll give you the same respect.

3) be honest & open to communication: we’re interested in meeting up and going on dates rather than texting back and forth with fakes & flakes talking kinks & swapping photos. we’ve gotten pretty good at recognizing them and have no problem blocking / ignoring immediately. so please follow these simple rules. the faster we get to setting up a vibe check date, the better.

SINGLE MEN! we are sorry. we know it’s tough out there on your own trying to meet couples, but we’re just NOT INTERESTED. we want to save you the effort in sending us a message because it’ll be automatically ignored or deleted. despite saying this repeatedly, we still receive a ton of them. thank you for understanding.

apologies for the long read, but it’s here to weed out the folks we aren’t interested in. we’re very chill and friendly. just be kind, honest, patient and local to SoCal and we’ll be on our way to some hot fun. thanks and we’re looking forward to meeting you!