her: 35, 5’ 3”, 130 lbs. white. blue eyes / blonde

him: 38, 5’ 7”, 135 lbs. latino. brown eyes / black hair

hey SoCal! we’re a HWP & DDF average looking nerdy/geeky couple in an open ENM relationship. we’re relatively new to the swinging lifestyle and looking for another couple for same room sex. we have had some awesome experiences with others and we’d love to meet more of you! we’re very friendly and looking to set up dates.

we’d appreciate verification and an in-person chemistry/vibe-check before playing. something like going out for casual drinks/dinner with a potential couple to see if we mesh before we plan some fun. we understand meeting others online can be a difficult, so we’ve created some guidelines to help you arrange a successful meeting with us.

interested in meeting us?

1) introduce yourselves in dm: the most successful couples we’ve dated are the ones who approach us with a little class and understand that we’re not sharing naked photos or endlessly talking about kinks until after we’ve met in person. tell us a little about yourselves and send some basic stats. we don’t respond to blank profiles or low-effort dms (“hey”) without photos, which brings us to…

2) send photos of the two of you together: helpful way for us to verify you’re an actual couple. we’ll do the same. we take absolutely no offense if we’re not a match. we’re not models and absolutely don’t expect you to be. confidence in yourselves is what’s attractive to us. we are both happy to swap face photos and appreciate your discretion in not sharing them. we’ll give you the same respect.

3) be honest & open to communication: we’re interested in meeting up and going on dates rather than texting back and forth with fakes/flakes that lead nowhere. we’ve gotten pretty good at recognizing them and have no problem blocking / ignoring. the faster we get to setting up a vibe check date, the better!

SINGLE MEN! we are sorry. we know it’s tough out there on your own trying to meet couples, but we’re just not interested. we want to save you the effort in sending us a message because it’ll be automatically ignored or deleted. despite saying this repeatedly, we still receive a ton of them. thank you for understanding.

apologies for the long read, but it’s here to weed out the folks we aren’t interested in and help you figure out if we’ll be a match! we’re very chill and friendly. just be kind, honest, patient and local to SoCal and we’ll be on our way to some hot fun. thanks and we’re looking forward to meeting you!