tl;dr: COUPLE IN AN ENM RELATIONSHIP LOOKING FOR GENUINE MF COUPLES FOR SAME ROOM / NO SWAP ONLY. VIBE CHECK REQUIRED. NO SINGLE MEN.

him: 38, 5’ 7”, 140 lbs. latino. brown eyes / black hair her: 35, 5’ 3”, 130 lbs. white. blue eyes / blonde

hey SoCal! we’re a HWP & DDF average looking nerdy/geeky couple in an open ENM relationship relatively new to the swinging lifestyle and looking for another couple for same room sex. we have experience of playing with others and we’re rolling out slow as we start out with new couples, but could eventually turn into swapping in the future.

we want verification and an in-person chemistry/vibe-check before playing. something like going out for casual drinks/dinner with a potential couple to see if we mesh before we plan some fun. we’re very friendly, but busy with our professional lives. looking to set up dates in April since we’re booked up the rest of this month.

interested in meeting us?

1) introduce yourselves in dm: the most successful couples we’ve dated are the ones who approach us with a little class and understand that we’re not sharing naked photos or endlessly talking about kinks until after we’ve met in person. for full disclosure, M runs this account and F checks messages and responds. we don’t respond to “hey” or low-effort dms.

2) send photos of the two of you together: helpful way for us to verify you’re an actual couple. we’ll do the same. we take absolutely no offense if we’re not a match. we’re not models and don’t expect you to be. confidence in yourselves is what’s attractive to us. we are both happy to swap face photos and appreciate your discretion in not sharing them. we’ll give you the same respect.

3) be honest & open to communication: we’re interested in meeting up and going on dates rather than texting back and forth with fakes & flakes talking kinks & swapping photos. we’ve gotten pretty good at recognizing them and have no problem blocking / ignoring. the faster we get to setting up a vibe check date, the better. we are both happy to swap face photos with couples local to southern california and appreciate your discretion in not sharing them.

SINGLE MEN! We are sorry. We know it’s tough out there on your own trying to meet couples, but we’re just not interested. we want to save you the effort in sending us a message because it’ll be automatically ignored or deleted. despite saying this repeatedly we still receive a ton of them. thank you for understanding.

apologies for the long read, but it’s here to weed out the folks we aren’t interested in. we’re very chill and friendly. just be kind, honest, patient and local to SoCal and we’ll be on our way to some hot fun. thanks and we’re looking forward to meeting you!