Updated specific locations to be searchable, take a look at Las Vegas as an example.
Southern California
r/SoCalR4R
139,693 subscribers
R4R - The Southern California edition

Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, ride shares, hikers, concert partners, clubs, explorers, exercise pals, political rallies, entrepreneurs, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits [fwb] / casual encounters, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.

For Los Angeles, Orange County, San Diego, and surrounding areas

SoCalR4R Moderators

Last updated: 10/11/2024
• throwitalloutla added 6 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/socalr4rverified)
• PotatoWedges added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• ModeratelyHelpfulBot added 5 years ago (also mods r/GFDpersonals, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/latinas, r/Hotwife, r/boobs, and 195 more...)
• wutwutindabuttbutt added 4 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• XanderAquinas added 4 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• FunInSanDiego added 3 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/CuckqueanCommunity, r/socalr4rverified, r/SanDiegoR4R)
• anthongy added 3 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified, r/Socalswingers)
• BlueC0NVERSE added 2 years ago (also mods r/gonewild, r/TexasGW, r/GirlsinLaceFishnets, r/classysexy, r/BigBoobsGonewild, and 5 more...)
• XOTIC10 added 1 year ago and removed 11 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• lilhotcheeto added 1 year ago and removed 11 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• RedCheeksGuy added 7 months ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob)
• hive-protect added 2 months ago (also mods r/OhioHookups, r/Floridar4r, r/Jacksonviller4r, r/Bulges, r/Precum, and 85 more...)

SoCalR4R Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• Verification Required

Effective 12/07/20, all users must be verified in order to post in this subreddit. If you are not verified, your post will be deleted.

• Title Format

"Age [X4X] #City - Title"

• Posting Requirements

Accounts must be more than 72 hours old.

All users must have at least 10 Post AND 10 Comment Karma to post or comment.

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• Post Limit

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• NSFW Flair

This community is set as a NSFW subreddit, so all posts are automatically tagged as NSFW.

• No Identifying Information

No personal information such as social media, Snapchat, Kik usernames, or phone numbers are allowed in posts or comments. These must be exclusively shared through chat or PMs.

• Absolutely No Exchanging Money/Sex For Any Legal/Illegal Content, Services, Objects, and/or Yourself

This includes OnlyFans, premium Snapchat, findom, and sugaring. Infractions will be immediately deleted, and the poster will be permabanned. This includes those that do not explicitly state it in their posts and/or on their profiles.

• No Advertising

Advertisement of any type of event, service, chat room, or content is not allowed in posts or users' profiles.

• No Illegal Activities

This includes drugs, prostitution, etc.

• Harassment

There is absolutely zero tolerance for harassing other users or inciting violence. Just be a decent human being. It's really not that hard.

• "Messaged u"

Stop commenting this shit on people's posts. They already know.

• Reporting A User

If you are reporting another user for being a scammer, picture collector, fake, etc., you must message the modmail or one of the moderators individually and have some proof (screenshots). We cannot do anything if we can't follow up with the person who made the report.

• 18+ Only

This is an 18+ community only.

• Catfish/Scammer

If you have proof that someone is catfishing/scamming, take a screenshot and send it to the mod team via modmail.

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to r/SoCalR4R by algaefied_creek
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36 [R4R] #Pasadena / Altadena — Nudist hangout w/41 yo straight avg-joe. Body positivity chill hangout w beer or wine? 420? Gaming or board games? Deep convo? M, F, Couples all welcome.
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99 [R4R] #StayAlert - Be careful with u/Particular-Jump3938 Its a pic collector. PROOF of being sus in POST
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to r/SoCalR4R by RedCheeksGuy
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29 [R4R] #LosAngeles - A Quiet Place Movie Night @ Atlantic Times Square AMC Tonight at 4:30PM
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to r/SoCalR4R by CumDumpAsh
4 months ago
31 [r4r] #LongBeach/OC Area - Sub cd/femboy bottom here.
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to r/SoCalR4R by Aggravating-Mud6791
6 months ago
26 [r4r] #pasadena- guys , need my dose of collagen:)
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to r/SoCalR4R by RedCheeksGuy
7 months ago
28 [R4R] #LosAngeles - Thrifting/Estate Sale/Antiquing Group! Saturday 3/16 @12PM [PLATONIC]
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to r/SoCalR4R by Demand_Prize
7 months ago
24 [R4R] #Hollywood - looking for a guy to sext my girl in snapchat
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to r/SoCalR4R by RedCheeksGuy
7 months ago
28 [R4R] #LosAngeles - Thrifting/Estate Sale Friend Group! Saturday 3/2 @12PM [PLATONIC]
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to r/SoCalR4R by Demand_Prize
7 months ago
24 [R4R] #Hollywood - looking for a guy to jerk off to my girl's nudes together with me in person
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to r/SoCalR4R by AznCplDstroysAmerica
8 months ago
31 [R4F] #Anaheim - Looking for a friend (possibly w/ benefits)
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to r/SoCalR4R by testingthisout2527
8 months ago
24 [R4M] #Socal/Online -I'll rate your cock
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to r/SoCalR4R by brown_boy39
8 months ago
23 [R4R] #Lake Forest - Need someone to cuck and own my woman in front of me
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to r/SoCalR4R by BrilliantClass4450
8 months ago
28 [r4r] #SanDiego- any buds wanna chat and check out my wife?
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to r/SoCalR4R by BrilliantClass4450
8 months ago
28 [r4r] San Diego- Showing off my wife
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to r/SoCalR4R by RedCheeksGuy
9 months ago
28 [R4R] #SanGabriel - Chicha San Chen Boba Meetup Today @ 1145a [PLATONIC]
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to r/SoCalR4R by Kaifi42
9 months ago
19 [R4R] #Oceanside - kinky enby stuck in their car for the next several hours
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to r/SoCalR4R by Goryouz
9 months ago
29 [R4F] #OrangeCounty/Buena Park - Easing back in
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to r/SoCalR4R by BWCnOC
10 months ago
41 [r4r] #Fullerton- BWC needs twink service
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to r/SoCalR4R by HornyvisitorFl
10 months ago
35 [r4R] #costamesa - in person virtual reality porn experience -straight and bi-curious guys only
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to r/SoCalR4R by HornyvisitorFl
10 months ago
35 [r4R] #newport beach- in person Vr porn experience
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to r/SoCalR4R by Eggpuff21
10 months ago
24 [R4R/FFMM] #WestLA - 🎲 Seeking Players for D&D Campaign in West LA! 🏹
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to r/SoCalR4R by RedCheeksGuy
1 year ago
28 [R4R] #LosAngeles - Movie Night [SUCCESS]! [VERIFIED] [PLATONIC]
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to r/SoCalR4R by RedCheeksGuy
1 year ago
28 [R4R] #Alhambra - AMC Movie Night TONIGHT! Final Post [PLATONIC]
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