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r/SoCalR4R
139,914 subscribers
R4R - The Southern California edition

Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, ride shares, hikers, concert partners, clubs, explorers, exercise pals, political rallies, entrepreneurs, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits [fwb] / casual encounters, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.

For Los Angeles, Orange County, San Diego, and surrounding areas

SoCalR4R Moderators

Last updated: 10/20/2024
• throwitalloutla added 6 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/socalr4rverified)
• PotatoWedges added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• ModeratelyHelpfulBot added 5 years ago (also mods r/GFDpersonals, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/latinas, r/Hotwife, r/boobs, and 195 more...)
• wutwutindabuttbutt added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• XanderAquinas added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• FunInSanDiego added 3 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/CuckqueanCommunity, r/socalr4rverified, r/SanDiegoR4R)
• anthongy added 3 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified, r/Socalswingers)
• BlueC0NVERSE added 2 years ago (also mods r/gonewild, r/TexasGW, r/GirlsinLaceFishnets, r/classysexy, r/BigBoobsGonewild, and 5 more...)
• XOTIC10 added 1 year ago and removed 1 day ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• lilhotcheeto added 1 year ago and removed 1 day ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• RedCheeksGuy added 7 months ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob)
• hive-protect added 2 months ago (also mods r/OhioHookups, r/Floridar4r, r/Jacksonviller4r, r/Bulges, r/Precum, and 87 more...)

SoCalR4R Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• Verification Required

Effective 12/07/20, all users must be verified in order to post in this subreddit. If you are not verified, your post will be deleted.

• Title Format

"Age [X4X] #City - Title"

• Posting Requirements

Accounts must be more than 72 hours old.

All users must have at least 10 Post AND 10 Comment Karma to post or comment.

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• Post Limit

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• NSFW Flair

This community is set as a NSFW subreddit, so all posts are automatically tagged as NSFW.

• No Identifying Information

No personal information such as social media, Snapchat, Kik usernames, or phone numbers are allowed in posts or comments. These must be exclusively shared through chat or PMs.

• Absolutely No Exchanging Money/Sex For Any Legal/Illegal Content, Services, Objects, and/or Yourself

This includes OnlyFans, premium Snapchat, findom, and sugaring. Infractions will be immediately deleted, and the poster will be permabanned. This includes those that do not explicitly state it in their posts and/or on their profiles.

• No Advertising

Advertisement of any type of event, service, chat room, or content is not allowed in posts or users' profiles.

• No Illegal Activities

This includes drugs, prostitution, etc.

• Harassment

There is absolutely zero tolerance for harassing other users or inciting violence. Just be a decent human being. It's really not that hard.

• "Messaged u"

Stop commenting this shit on people's posts. They already know.

• Reporting A User

If you are reporting another user for being a scammer, picture collector, fake, etc., you must message the modmail or one of the moderators individually and have some proof (screenshots). We cannot do anything if we can't follow up with the person who made the report.

• 18+ Only

This is an 18+ community only.

• Catfish/Scammer

If you have proof that someone is catfishing/scamming, take a screenshot and send it to the mod team via modmail.

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brazilian-ts
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60%
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Verified Email
Yes
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No
Total Karma
692
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435
Comment Karma
257
Profile updated: 1 day ago
Posts updated: 1 week ago
Snoo21659
Account Strength
100%
Account Age
4 years
Verified Email
Yes
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Yes
Total Karma
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14
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20
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Posts updated: 3 days ago
republiccityblue
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
1 year
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Yes
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No
Total Karma
369
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311
Comment Karma
58
Profile updated: 21 hours ago
Posts updated: 16 hours ago
Musk-Order66
Account Strength
90%
Account Age
1 year
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Yes
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No
Total Karma
13,695
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362
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13,269
Profile updated: 5 days ago
Posts updated: 3 weeks ago
wanderlust009
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80%
Account Age
5 years
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242
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22
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220
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TheCatboyChronicles
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50%
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11 months
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Yes
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28
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thattallguy321
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70%
Account Age
3 years
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Yes
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48
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26
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Dizzy_Method_3875
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Account Age
1 year
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Yes
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No
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101
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57
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44
Profile updated: 1 day ago
Posts updated: 2 days ago
Creative_Conflict955
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50%
Account Age
4 months
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Yes
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No
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1,263
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1,178
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85
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Posts updated: 2 days ago
andyevans310
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50%
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1 year
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Yes
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No
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723
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34
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689
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