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r/SoCalR4R
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R4R - The Southern California edition

Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, ride shares, hikers, concert partners, clubs, explorers, exercise pals, political rallies, entrepreneurs, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits [fwb] / casual encounters, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.

For Los Angeles, Orange County, San Diego, and surrounding areas

SoCalR4R Moderators

Last updated: 10/17/2024
• throwitalloutla added 6 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/socalr4rverified)
• PotatoWedges added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• ModeratelyHelpfulBot added 5 years ago (also mods r/GFDpersonals, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/latinas, r/Hotwife, r/boobs, and 195 more...)
• wutwutindabuttbutt added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• XanderAquinas added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• FunInSanDiego added 3 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/CuckqueanCommunity, r/socalr4rverified, r/SanDiegoR4R)
• anthongy added 3 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified, r/Socalswingers)
• BlueC0NVERSE added 2 years ago (also mods r/gonewild, r/TexasGW, r/GirlsinLaceFishnets, r/classysexy, r/BigBoobsGonewild, and 5 more...)
• XOTIC10 added 1 year ago and removed 17 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• lilhotcheeto added 1 year ago and removed 17 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• RedCheeksGuy added 7 months ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob)
• hive-protect added 2 months ago (also mods r/OhioHookups, r/Floridar4r, r/Jacksonviller4r, r/Bulges, r/Precum, and 85 more...)

SoCalR4R Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• Verification Required

Effective 12/07/20, all users must be verified in order to post in this subreddit. If you are not verified, your post will be deleted.

• Title Format

"Age [X4X] #City - Title"

• Posting Requirements

Accounts must be more than 72 hours old.

All users must have at least 10 Post AND 10 Comment Karma to post or comment.

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• Post Limit

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• NSFW Flair

This community is set as a NSFW subreddit, so all posts are automatically tagged as NSFW.

• No Identifying Information

No personal information such as social media, Snapchat, Kik usernames, or phone numbers are allowed in posts or comments. These must be exclusively shared through chat or PMs.

• Absolutely No Exchanging Money/Sex For Any Legal/Illegal Content, Services, Objects, and/or Yourself

This includes OnlyFans, premium Snapchat, findom, and sugaring. Infractions will be immediately deleted, and the poster will be permabanned. This includes those that do not explicitly state it in their posts and/or on their profiles.

• No Advertising

Advertisement of any type of event, service, chat room, or content is not allowed in posts or users' profiles.

• No Illegal Activities

This includes drugs, prostitution, etc.

• Harassment

There is absolutely zero tolerance for harassing other users or inciting violence. Just be a decent human being. It's really not that hard.

• "Messaged u"

Stop commenting this shit on people's posts. They already know.

• Reporting A User

If you are reporting another user for being a scammer, picture collector, fake, etc., you must message the modmail or one of the moderators individually and have some proof (screenshots). We cannot do anything if we can't follow up with the person who made the report.

• 18+ Only

This is an 18+ community only.

• Catfish/Scammer

If you have proof that someone is catfishing/scamming, take a screenshot and send it to the mod team via modmail.

In the last day...
There have been 47 posts
By 47 authors
Top authors today @ r/SoCalR4R
Effervenascense
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
2 months
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
285
Link Karma
89
Comment Karma
196
Profile updated: 2 days ago
Posts updated: 2 days ago
liberiangirll22
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
1 week
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
91
Link Karma
71
Comment Karma
20
Profile updated: 4 hours ago
Sea_Eggplant_3983
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
4 months
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
43
Link Karma
24
Comment Karma
19
Profile updated: 3 days ago
Posts updated: 3 hours ago
GayBoy7689
Account Strength
60%
Account Age
1 year
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
809
Link Karma
758
Comment Karma
51
Profile updated: 6 days ago
Posts updated: 4 days ago
roadtoriches
Account Strength
70%
Account Age
11 years
Verified Email
No
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
998
Link Karma
572
Comment Karma
426
Profile updated: 4 days ago
Posts updated: 21 hours ago
J_arms
Account Strength
80%
Account Age
4 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
103
Link Karma
60
Comment Karma
43
Profile updated: 1 week ago
Posts updated: 3 days ago
theworsthades
Account Strength
100%
Account Age
6 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
Yes
Total Karma
51,979
Link Karma
880
Comment Karma
49,171
Profile updated: 5 days ago
Posts updated: 9 months ago
EasyPiano5430
Account Strength
50%
Account Age
6 months
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
186
Link Karma
152
Comment Karma
34
Profile updated: 3 days ago
Posts updated: 2 days ago
Skeptical_Limits31
Account Strength
50%
Account Age
1 year
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
246
Link Karma
203
Comment Karma
43
Profile updated: 3 days ago
Posts updated: 2 days ago
EgoVilify
Account Strength
100%
Account Age
12 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
3,926
Link Karma
615
Comment Karma
3,275
Profile updated: 4 days ago
Posts updated: 2 days ago
 
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to r/SoCalR4R by GayBoy7689
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20 [M4M] #Torrance - Are you a Straight Guy & Horny to Fuck a Tight Asian Mixed Gay Boy Ass to Release a Load
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to r/SoCalR4R by shipwrekd_sailor
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in Anaheim, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by BeardnTattoos32
1 hour ago
34 [M4F] #inlandempire - Looking for a fun, gorgeous woman
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in Inland Empire, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Cali4fun22
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39 [m4f] #murrieta - cute latina or WF wanted for ongoing by black M
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in murrieta
to r/SoCalR4R by fitdocOC
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55 [M4F] #Anaheim - Athletic Divorced DILF
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in Anaheim, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Iam_JaeX
3 hours ago
28 [M4F] #InlandEmpire - Amazing 9 inch dick. Looking for a woman who absolutely loves to give head. CAN HOST
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in Inland Empire, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by sauronsays01
3 hours ago
23 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Fulfill your wildest fantasies
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in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by LaputaHummingbird
3 hours ago
25 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - I'm emotionally avaliable and have the time to talk to you.
M4F M4F
in Orange County, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by DifficultIntention1
4 hours ago
35 [M4F] #LosAngeles - I’d love to give you a massage
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in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Sea_Eggplant_3983
4 hours ago
21 [M4A] #MorenoValley - hosting fun!!!
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in Moreno Valley, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Curiosity2003
4 hours ago
21 [M4MF] #Cerritos - Looking to host a couple or woman at my apartment for some fun!
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in Cerritos, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by mestabby1
4 hours ago
32 [M4F] #Riverside - BWC
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in Riverside, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by roadtoriches
4 hours ago
30 [M4F] #Irvine - Fit guy 💪 with abs and the prettiest BWC you've ever seen! Looking for a new long term fwb
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in Irvine, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Pristine-Way8124
4 hours ago
28 [M4F] #Sandiego - Looking for anr and abf
M4F M4F
in San Diego, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by masterxcock
4 hours ago
39 [M4MF] #orangecounty - Pick at least 1 and let’s have fun
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in Orange County, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by CvberFae
4 hours ago
27 [M4M] #LA_Orange_SanDiego - Looking for SoCal gaymers
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in LA_Orange_SanDiego
to r/SoCalR4R by Anxious_Attorney7085
4 hours ago
30 [M4F] #NewportBeach - Looking for a Petite Gen Z Sub
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in Newport Beach, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Deyganwolf
4 hours ago
52 [M4F] #Ventura - 6’2, Hung, Supremely Confident, Strict, Commanding Dominant Looking for a Submissive Girlfriend to Sexually Objectify in an Exclusive Relationship
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in Ventura, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by KissTheChef909
7 hours ago
26 [M4F] #Fontana - Thick BBC looking for some good head, possible fwb (Pics on profile)
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in Fontana, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by EgoVilify
8 hours ago
38 [M4F] #InlandEmpire - Latino Hot Mess Looking for a Woman to Take a Chance on Me
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in Inland Empire, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Gaga4goggins
8 hours ago
45 [M4F] #LosAngeles - You into meeting IRL? Communicating? Making stupid jokes? Geeking out as much as kinking out? Does this work? Let's give it a try
M4F M4F
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by EasyPiano5430
8 hours ago
22 [M4T] #LongBeach - looking to chat and meet up!
M4T M4T
in Long Beach, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by theworsthades
8 hours ago
39 [M4F] #SouthBay - Watch the Dodgers game at Dave and Busters?
M4F
in South Bay, CA