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r/SoCalR4R
139,914 subscribers
R4R - The Southern California edition

Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, ride shares, hikers, concert partners, clubs, explorers, exercise pals, political rallies, entrepreneurs, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits [fwb] / casual encounters, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.

For Los Angeles, Orange County, San Diego, and surrounding areas

SoCalR4R Moderators

Last updated: 10/20/2024
• throwitalloutla added 6 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/socalr4rverified)
• PotatoWedges added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• ModeratelyHelpfulBot added 5 years ago (also mods r/GFDpersonals, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/latinas, r/Hotwife, r/boobs, and 195 more...)
• wutwutindabuttbutt added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• XanderAquinas added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• FunInSanDiego added 3 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/CuckqueanCommunity, r/socalr4rverified, r/SanDiegoR4R)
• anthongy added 3 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified, r/Socalswingers)
• BlueC0NVERSE added 2 years ago (also mods r/gonewild, r/TexasGW, r/GirlsinLaceFishnets, r/classysexy, r/BigBoobsGonewild, and 5 more...)
• XOTIC10 added 1 year ago and removed 1 day ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• lilhotcheeto added 1 year ago and removed 1 day ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• RedCheeksGuy added 7 months ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob)
• hive-protect added 2 months ago (also mods r/OhioHookups, r/Floridar4r, r/Jacksonviller4r, r/Bulges, r/Precum, and 87 more...)

SoCalR4R Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• Verification Required

Effective 12/07/20, all users must be verified in order to post in this subreddit. If you are not verified, your post will be deleted.

• Title Format

"Age [X4X] #City - Title"

• Posting Requirements

Accounts must be more than 72 hours old.

All users must have at least 10 Post AND 10 Comment Karma to post or comment.

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• Post Limit

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• NSFW Flair

This community is set as a NSFW subreddit, so all posts are automatically tagged as NSFW.

• No Identifying Information

No personal information such as social media, Snapchat, Kik usernames, or phone numbers are allowed in posts or comments. These must be exclusively shared through chat or PMs.

• Absolutely No Exchanging Money/Sex For Any Legal/Illegal Content, Services, Objects, and/or Yourself

This includes OnlyFans, premium Snapchat, findom, and sugaring. Infractions will be immediately deleted, and the poster will be permabanned. This includes those that do not explicitly state it in their posts and/or on their profiles.

• No Advertising

Advertisement of any type of event, service, chat room, or content is not allowed in posts or users' profiles.

• No Illegal Activities

This includes drugs, prostitution, etc.

• Harassment

There is absolutely zero tolerance for harassing other users or inciting violence. Just be a decent human being. It's really not that hard.

• "Messaged u"

Stop commenting this shit on people's posts. They already know.

• Reporting A User

If you are reporting another user for being a scammer, picture collector, fake, etc., you must message the modmail or one of the moderators individually and have some proof (screenshots). We cannot do anything if we can't follow up with the person who made the report.

• 18+ Only

This is an 18+ community only.

• Catfish/Scammer

If you have proof that someone is catfishing/scamming, take a screenshot and send it to the mod team via modmail.

In the last day...
There have been 33 posts
By 33 authors
Top authors today @ r/SoCalR4R
republiccityblue
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
1 year
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
369
Link Karma
311
Comment Karma
58
Profile updated: 1 day ago
Posts updated: 21 hours ago
Musk-Order66
Account Strength
90%
Account Age
1 year
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
13,695
Link Karma
362
Comment Karma
13,269
Profile updated: 5 days ago
Posts updated: 3 weeks ago
ImprovementSuch9980
Account Strength
60%
Account Age
3 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
445
Link Karma
182
Comment Karma
263
Profile updated: 6 days ago
Posts updated: 3 days ago
wanderlust009
Account Strength
80%
Account Age
5 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
242
Link Karma
22
Comment Karma
220
Profile updated: 3 days ago
Posts updated: 1 day ago
ThrowAwayNickDTLA
Account Strength
100%
Account Age
2 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
Yes
Total Karma
143
Link Karma
96
Comment Karma
47
Profile updated: 5 days ago
Posts updated: 3 days ago
WildSideOC
Account Strength
50%
Account Age
8 years
Verified Email
No
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
363
Link Karma
152
Comment Karma
211
Profile updated: 18 hours ago
Posts updated: 1 month ago
Dizzy_Method_3875
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
1 year
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
101
Link Karma
57
Comment Karma
44
Profile updated: 2 days ago
Posts updated: 2 days ago
Creative_Conflict955
Account Strength
50%
Account Age
4 months
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
1,263
Link Karma
1,178
Comment Karma
85
Profile updated: 4 days ago
Posts updated: 2 days ago
andyevans310
Account Strength
50%
Account Age
1 year
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
723
Link Karma
34
Comment Karma
689
Profile updated: 3 days ago
Posts updated: 3 weeks ago
Zakroth9
Account Strength
100%
Account Age
5 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
Yes
Total Karma
950
Link Karma
110
Comment Karma
840
Profile updated: 3 days ago
Posts updated: 1 day ago
 
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to r/SoCalR4R by Deyganwolf
15 minutes ago
52 [M4F] #Ventura - 6’2, Hung, Supremely Confident, Strict, Commanding Dominant Looking for a Submissive Girlfriend to Sexually Objectify in an Exclusive Relationship
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to r/SoCalR4R by cantrecalltwice
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34 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Would love to go on a cute date, with a side of naughty. Fun sized fit Asian looking for love, but short term fun is great too.
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in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by diveanddine
1 hour ago
30 [M4F] #SFV - It's spooky season and Casper the Horny Ghost is looking for a Thicc/Voluptuous pillow princess
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in San Fernando Valley, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Dizzy_Method_3875
1 hour ago
35 [M4F] #Gardena - Los Angeles 310 AP/FWB WANTED something real and long term
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in Gardena, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by WildSideOC
1 hour ago
32 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Let’s fool around in public
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in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Rckshrder
2 hours ago
35 [M4F] #HuntingtonBeach - Smoke you out (420) then eat you out
M4F M4F
in Huntington Beach, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Kingcrims0n__
3 hours ago
25 [M4F] #Norwalk - any big girls looking for fun?
M4F M4F
in Norwalk
to r/SoCalR4R by ThrowAwayNickDTLA
3 hours ago
42 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Looking for a fun new friend? Let’s meet up!
M4F
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by republiccityblue
4 hours ago
36 [m4m] #orangecounty - thicc chubby total bottom hosting fun lowkey top this evening
M4M M4M
in Orange County, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by roadtoriches
5 hours ago
30 [M4F] #Irvine - Fit guy 💪 with abs and the prettiest BWC looking for a new long term fwb
M4F M4F
in Irvine, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by socalcumm
6 hours ago
35 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - Looking for a cute face to cover in cum!
M4F M4F
in Orange County, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by twistedtheories-CA
7 hours ago
29 [M4F] #Redlands - single, attached or coupled to the front.
M4F
in Redlands, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by ElChorizoGuey
9 hours ago
30 [M4F] #Downey - Mexican-Guatemalan, 6'1," looking to go down on a woman
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in guatemala
to r/SoCalR4R by BranSoto94
15 hours ago
29 [M4M] #Brea - Looking for now in Brea or Fullerton
M4M M4M
in Brea
to r/SoCalR4R by autoeroticpark
16 hours ago
37 [M4T] #Downey - I need a girlfriend.
M4T M4T
in Downey, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by TheSurePossession
16 hours ago
52 [M4F] #BeverlyHills - You are my PGF (Potential Girlfriend). Read these rules carefully and memorize them. (D/s, misogyny)
M4F M4F
in Beverly Hills, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Anxious_Attorney7085
16 hours ago
30 [M4F] #NewportBeach - Looking for a Petite Gen Z Sub
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in Newport Beach, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by throwaway-5661
18 hours ago
38 [m4f] #OrangeCounty - Does it turn you on to play with a guys nipples?
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in Orange County, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by 7stringguitarhelp123
18 hours ago
30 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Looking for consistent FWB
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in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by wanderlust009
18 hours ago
34 [M4F] #SanDiego - Asian guy looking to connect!
M4F M4F
in San Diego, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by ImprovementSuch9980
19 hours ago
30 [M4MF] #Riverside - bbc interested in watching a couple
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in Riverside, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Iam_JaeX
19 hours ago
28 [M4F] #InlandEmpire - Amazing 9 inch dick. Looking for a woman who absolutely loves to give head
M4F M4F
in Inland Empire, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Musk-Order66
20 hours ago
36 [M4R] #Pasadena - Roomies Lookin for Chill Vibes & Discreet Encounters (Single Men; MF Couples)
M4R M4R
in Pasadena, Ca
to r/SoCalR4R by alxdior
21 hours ago
28 [M4M] #sanfernando - DL latino with great oral skills for chill masc bro
M4M M4M
in San Fernando Valley, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Sea_Eggplant_3983
21 hours ago
21 [M4F] #MorenoValley - looking to smoke. Hosting
M4F M4F
in Moreno Valley, CA