Updated specific locations to be searchable, take a look at Las Vegas as an example.
Southern California
r/SoCalR4R
139,659 subscribers
R4R - The Southern California edition

Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, ride shares, hikers, concert partners, clubs, explorers, exercise pals, political rallies, entrepreneurs, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits [fwb] / casual encounters, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.

For Los Angeles, Orange County, San Diego, and surrounding areas

SoCalR4R Moderators

Last updated: 10/09/2024
• throwitalloutla added 6 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/socalr4rverified)
• PotatoWedges added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• ModeratelyHelpfulBot added 5 years ago (also mods r/GFDpersonals, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/latinas, r/Hotwife, r/boobs, and 195 more...)
• wutwutindabuttbutt added 4 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• XanderAquinas added 4 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• FunInSanDiego added 3 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/CuckqueanCommunity, r/socalr4rverified, r/SanDiegoR4R)
• anthongy added 3 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified, r/Socalswingers)
• BlueC0NVERSE added 2 years ago (also mods r/gonewild, r/TexasGW, r/GirlsinLaceFishnets, r/classysexy, r/BigBoobsGonewild, and 5 more...)
• XOTIC10 added 1 year ago and removed 17 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• lilhotcheeto added 1 year ago and removed 17 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• RedCheeksGuy added 6 months ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob)
• hive-protect added 2 months ago (also mods r/OhioHookups, r/Floridar4r, r/Jacksonviller4r, r/Bulges, r/Precum, and 85 more...)

SoCalR4R Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• Verification Required

Effective 12/07/20, all users must be verified in order to post in this subreddit. If you are not verified, your post will be deleted.

• Title Format

"Age [X4X] #City - Title"

• Posting Requirements

Accounts must be more than 72 hours old.

All users must have at least 10 Post AND 10 Comment Karma to post or comment.

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• Post Limit

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• NSFW Flair

This community is set as a NSFW subreddit, so all posts are automatically tagged as NSFW.

• No Identifying Information

No personal information such as social media, Snapchat, Kik usernames, or phone numbers are allowed in posts or comments. These must be exclusively shared through chat or PMs.

• Absolutely No Exchanging Money/Sex For Any Legal/Illegal Content, Services, Objects, and/or Yourself

This includes OnlyFans, premium Snapchat, findom, and sugaring. Infractions will be immediately deleted, and the poster will be permabanned. This includes those that do not explicitly state it in their posts and/or on their profiles.

• No Advertising

Advertisement of any type of event, service, chat room, or content is not allowed in posts or users' profiles.

• No Illegal Activities

This includes drugs, prostitution, etc.

• Harassment

There is absolutely zero tolerance for harassing other users or inciting violence. Just be a decent human being. It's really not that hard.

• "Messaged u"

Stop commenting this shit on people's posts. They already know.

• Reporting A User

If you are reporting another user for being a scammer, picture collector, fake, etc., you must message the modmail or one of the moderators individually and have some proof (screenshots). We cannot do anything if we can't follow up with the person who made the report.

• 18+ Only

This is an 18+ community only.

• Catfish/Scammer

If you have proof that someone is catfishing/scamming, take a screenshot and send it to the mod team via modmail.

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to r/SoCalR4R by Sea_Eggplant_3983
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21 [M4A] #MorenoValley - Looking for a chill fwb that I can host and smoke with
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to r/SoCalR4R by Far-Preparation887
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31 [m4f] #LosAngeles - Inexperienced with Men? Have Questions? I’ll answer them
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to r/SoCalR4R by J_arms
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28 [M4F] #InlandEmpire - 9 inches and thick. Can host during the day. Looking for a open minded FWB
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to r/SoCalR4R by ElChorizoGuey
2 hours ago
30 [M4F] #Downey - half Guatemalan half Mexican, 6'1," looking to go down on a woman
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to r/SoCalR4R by curious-one
3 hours ago
36 [m4f] #losangeles - women who enjoy handjobs
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to r/SoCalR4R by perverseKinematics
7 hours ago
43 [M4F] #Irvine - Lets control each other's lovense toys
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to r/SoCalR4R by sauronsays01
9 hours ago
23 [M4F] #Riverside - Coming through town tomorrow
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to r/SoCalR4R by GayBoy7689
12 hours ago
20 [M4M] #LongBeach - Are you a Straight Guy & Horny to Try Anal with an Asian Mixed Gay Boy to Release some Stress
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to r/SoCalR4R by CravingCock_InSocks
12 hours ago
32 [M4M] #Pasadena - HELP ME OUT, BROS! Horny, masculine gay guy here wanting to suck STRAIGHT COCK while I jack off. Any STRAIGHT BROS wanna help me out? DARKROOM. ANON. Just step inside, whip it out, and get sucked. You bust down my throat while I bust on the floor. Zip up and be on your way.
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to r/SoCalR4R by 7stringguitarhelp123
12 hours ago
30 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Looking for consistent FWB
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to r/SoCalR4R by maesterjim
13 hours ago
56 [m4F] #southoc - married M looking for a secret Mistress
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to r/SoCalR4R by Uscbruins
14 hours ago
35 [M4F] #sandiego - Inexperienced, Looking for someone understanding
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to r/SoCalR4R by Zakroth9
15 hours ago
31 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - looking to make a connection
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to r/SoCalR4R by Dizzy_Method_3875
16 hours ago
35 [M4F] #Gardena - Los Angeles 310 AP/FWB WANTED something real and long term
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to r/SoCalR4R by Deyganwolf
17 hours ago
52 [M4F] #Ventura - 6’2, Hung, Supremely Confident, Strict, Commanding Dominant Looking for a Submissive Girlfriend to Sexually Objectify in an Exclusive Relationship
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to r/SoCalR4R by wanderlust009
17 hours ago
34 [M4F] #SanDiego - Asian guy looking for fwb
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to r/SoCalR4R by aznbbtm
18 hours ago
33 [m4m] #irvine - coming home from a long trip tomorrow and NEED some fun
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to r/SoCalR4R by KissTheChef909
19 hours ago
26 [M4F] #Fontana - Thick BBC looking for some good head, possible fwb (Pics on profile)
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to r/SoCalR4R by samsameer6868
20 hours ago
45 [M4F] #Temecula - Give out some attention
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to r/SoCalR4R by SuperSaltyKind
20 hours ago
45 [M4F] #WestLA - Ol’Fashioned Fuck Buddies
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to r/SoCalR4R by Haakenn
21 hours ago
23 [M4F] #sandiego - Scottish lad visiting and wanting to taste an American girl, going to LA soon
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to r/SoCalR4R by Rckshrder
23 hours ago
35 [M4F] #HuntingtonBeach - Smoke you out (420) then eat you out
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to r/SoCalR4R by CurlyStachDaddyBeard
23 hours ago
39 [M4F] #Riverside - daddybear looking for a sub/little /pet for a short to long term dynamic but forever friendship
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to r/SoCalR4R by Successful-Relative4
1 day ago
22 [M4F] #BeverlyHills - Latino looking for nothing serious
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to r/SoCalR4R by ElChorizoGuey
1 day ago
30 [M4F] #Downey - half Guatemalan half Mexican, 6'1," looking to go down on a woman
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