Updated specific locations to be searchable, take a look at Las Vegas as an example.
Southern California
r/SoCalR4R
139,648 subscribers
R4R - The Southern California edition

Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, ride shares, hikers, concert partners, clubs, explorers, exercise pals, political rallies, entrepreneurs, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits [fwb] / casual encounters, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.

For Los Angeles, Orange County, San Diego, and surrounding areas

SoCalR4R Moderators

Last updated: 10/08/2024
• throwitalloutla added 6 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/socalr4rverified)
• PotatoWedges added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• ModeratelyHelpfulBot added 5 years ago (also mods r/GFDpersonals, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/latinas, r/Hotwife, r/boobs, and 195 more...)
• wutwutindabuttbutt added 4 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• XanderAquinas added 4 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• FunInSanDiego added 3 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/CuckqueanCommunity, r/socalr4rverified, r/SanDiegoR4R)
• anthongy added 3 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified, r/Socalswingers)
• BlueC0NVERSE added 2 years ago (also mods r/gonewild, r/TexasGW, r/GirlsinLaceFishnets, r/classysexy, r/BigBoobsGonewild, and 5 more...)
• XOTIC10 added 1 year ago and removed 17 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• lilhotcheeto added 1 year ago and removed 17 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• RedCheeksGuy added 6 months ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob)
• hive-protect added 2 months ago (also mods r/OhioHookups, r/Floridar4r, r/Jacksonviller4r, r/Bulges, r/Precum, and 85 more...)

SoCalR4R Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• Verification Required

Effective 12/07/20, all users must be verified in order to post in this subreddit. If you are not verified, your post will be deleted.

• Title Format

"Age [X4X] #City - Title"

• Posting Requirements

Accounts must be more than 72 hours old.

All users must have at least 10 Post AND 10 Comment Karma to post or comment.

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• Post Limit

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• NSFW Flair

This community is set as a NSFW subreddit, so all posts are automatically tagged as NSFW.

• No Identifying Information

No personal information such as social media, Snapchat, Kik usernames, or phone numbers are allowed in posts or comments. These must be exclusively shared through chat or PMs.

• Absolutely No Exchanging Money/Sex For Any Legal/Illegal Content, Services, Objects, and/or Yourself

This includes OnlyFans, premium Snapchat, findom, and sugaring. Infractions will be immediately deleted, and the poster will be permabanned. This includes those that do not explicitly state it in their posts and/or on their profiles.

• No Advertising

Advertisement of any type of event, service, chat room, or content is not allowed in posts or users' profiles.

• No Illegal Activities

This includes drugs, prostitution, etc.

• Harassment

There is absolutely zero tolerance for harassing other users or inciting violence. Just be a decent human being. It's really not that hard.

• "Messaged u"

Stop commenting this shit on people's posts. They already know.

• Reporting A User

If you are reporting another user for being a scammer, picture collector, fake, etc., you must message the modmail or one of the moderators individually and have some proof (screenshots). We cannot do anything if we can't follow up with the person who made the report.

• 18+ Only

This is an 18+ community only.

• Catfish/Scammer

If you have proof that someone is catfishing/scamming, take a screenshot and send it to the mod team via modmail.

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Haakenn
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Blanxkc
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J_arms
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57
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Successful-Relative4
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twistedtheories-CA
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to r/SoCalR4R by fisharefriends9
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30 [M4F] #SanDiego - New job, new city, new friends?
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to r/SoCalR4R by vesperwildcatmeow
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38 [M4F] #NorthOC - Looking to blow off some steam with a juicy MILF
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to r/SoCalR4R by GayBoy7689
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20 [M4M] #Torrance - Are you a Straight Guy & Horny to Try Anal with an Asian Mixed Gay Boy to Release some Stress
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to r/SoCalR4R by malekithrowaway
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39 [M4M] #pasadena - DVP stamina training with pussy toy
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to r/SoCalR4R by Iam_JaeX
2 hours ago
28 [M4F] #InlandEmpire - 9 inches. Looking for a submissive size queen who loves giving amazing head
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to r/SoCalR4R by roadtoriches
3 hours ago
30 [M4F] #Irvine - Fit guy 💪 with abs and the prettiest BWC you've ever seen! Need a new long term fwb
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to r/SoCalR4R by ChillValDaddy
3 hours ago
39 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Looking for a date for my holiday office party. Going to maestro’s steak house
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to r/SoCalR4R by Curiosity2003
3 hours ago
21 [M4MF] #Cerritos - I have an apartment to myself, come over and let's have some fun! Looking for some fun new experiences with a couple or single woman who won't flake!
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to r/SoCalR4R by AnnoymousPenguin
4 hours ago
28 [M4F] #NorthHollywood - Seeking something new and exciting
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to r/SoCalR4R by ovrdue17
7 hours ago
36 [M4FM] #Irvine - Amazon Driver in need of some head
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to r/SoCalR4R by Deyganwolf
8 hours ago
52 [M4F] #Ventura - 6’2, Hung, Supremely Confident, Strict, Commanding Dominant Looking for a Submissive Girlfriend to Sexually Objectify in an Exclusive Relationship
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to r/SoCalR4R by SleeplessWestCoast
9 hours ago
32 [M4F] #Murrieta - And I like you, more than i should
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to r/SoCalR4R by EgoVilify
9 hours ago
38 [M4F] #SanBernardino - Loser Looking for Something Real
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to r/SoCalR4R by Haakenn
9 hours ago
23 [M4F] #Sandiego - Scottish guy visiting for the week, looking for fun
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to r/SoCalR4R by republiccityblue
10 hours ago
36 [m4m] #orangecounty - thicc chubby masculine bottom in need of a deep pounding
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to r/SoCalR4R by OddBaIIs
10 hours ago
22 [M4A] #LosAngeles - Anyone up to chat or hangout?
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to r/SoCalR4R by twistedtheories-CA
12 hours ago
29 [M4F] #Redlands - single, attached or coupled to the front.
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to r/SoCalR4R by Successful-Relative4
13 hours ago
23 [M4F] #SanBernardino - Young Latino looking for quick fun
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to r/SoCalR4R by J_arms
14 hours ago
28 [M4F] #InlandEmpire - 9 inches and thick. Can host during the day. Looking for a open minded FWB
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to r/SoCalR4R by Jedi26000
14 hours ago
51 [M4F] #losangeles - older man looking for young fit athletic woman of color for ongoing fwb
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to r/SoCalR4R by ElChorizoGuey
16 hours ago
30 [M4F] #Downey - half Guatemalan half Mexican, 6'1," looking to go down on a woman
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to r/SoCalR4R by Blanxkc
17 hours ago
31 [M4F] #fountainvalley - Rock Climbing and afterwards climb each other
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to r/SoCalR4R by Separate-Brother6264
17 hours ago
23 [M4F] #online - looking for an innocent girl
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to r/SoCalR4R by CurlyStachDaddyBeard
20 hours ago
39 [M4F] #JurupaValley - iso a cool chill female to play silent hill 2 and more with and watch scary movies with.🎃
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to r/SoCalR4R by OddBaIIs
21 hours ago
22 [M4A] #LosAngeles - Anyone up to chat or hangout?
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