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r/SoCalR4R
139,898 subscribers
R4R - The Southern California edition

Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, ride shares, hikers, concert partners, clubs, explorers, exercise pals, political rallies, entrepreneurs, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits [fwb] / casual encounters, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.

For Los Angeles, Orange County, San Diego, and surrounding areas

SoCalR4R Moderators

Last updated: 10/20/2024
• throwitalloutla added 6 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/socalr4rverified)
• PotatoWedges added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• ModeratelyHelpfulBot added 5 years ago (also mods r/GFDpersonals, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/latinas, r/Hotwife, r/boobs, and 195 more...)
• wutwutindabuttbutt added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• XanderAquinas added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• FunInSanDiego added 3 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/CuckqueanCommunity, r/socalr4rverified, r/SanDiegoR4R)
• anthongy added 3 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified, r/Socalswingers)
• BlueC0NVERSE added 2 years ago (also mods r/gonewild, r/TexasGW, r/GirlsinLaceFishnets, r/classysexy, r/BigBoobsGonewild, and 5 more...)
• XOTIC10 added 1 year ago and removed 2 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• lilhotcheeto added 1 year ago and removed 2 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• RedCheeksGuy added 7 months ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob)
• hive-protect added 2 months ago (also mods r/OhioHookups, r/Floridar4r, r/Jacksonviller4r, r/Bulges, r/Precum, and 86 more...)

SoCalR4R Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• Verification Required

Effective 12/07/20, all users must be verified in order to post in this subreddit. If you are not verified, your post will be deleted.

• Title Format

"Age [X4X] #City - Title"

• Posting Requirements

Accounts must be more than 72 hours old.

All users must have at least 10 Post AND 10 Comment Karma to post or comment.

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• Post Limit

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• NSFW Flair

This community is set as a NSFW subreddit, so all posts are automatically tagged as NSFW.

• No Identifying Information

No personal information such as social media, Snapchat, Kik usernames, or phone numbers are allowed in posts or comments. These must be exclusively shared through chat or PMs.

• Absolutely No Exchanging Money/Sex For Any Legal/Illegal Content, Services, Objects, and/or Yourself

This includes OnlyFans, premium Snapchat, findom, and sugaring. Infractions will be immediately deleted, and the poster will be permabanned. This includes those that do not explicitly state it in their posts and/or on their profiles.

• No Advertising

Advertisement of any type of event, service, chat room, or content is not allowed in posts or users' profiles.

• No Illegal Activities

This includes drugs, prostitution, etc.

• Harassment

There is absolutely zero tolerance for harassing other users or inciting violence. Just be a decent human being. It's really not that hard.

• "Messaged u"

Stop commenting this shit on people's posts. They already know.

• Reporting A User

If you are reporting another user for being a scammer, picture collector, fake, etc., you must message the modmail or one of the moderators individually and have some proof (screenshots). We cannot do anything if we can't follow up with the person who made the report.

• 18+ Only

This is an 18+ community only.

• Catfish/Scammer

If you have proof that someone is catfishing/scamming, take a screenshot and send it to the mod team via modmail.

In the last day...
There have been 35 posts
By 35 authors
Top authors today @ r/SoCalR4R
ladystardusttttttt
Account Strength
50%
Account Age
10 months
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
416
Link Karma
164
Comment Karma
252
Profile updated: 4 days ago
Posts updated: 7 hours ago
Former_Diver8607
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
4 months
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
57
Link Karma
31
Comment Karma
26
Profile updated: 7 hours ago
Posts updated: 1 month ago
katsubo_throwaway
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
6 months
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
44
Link Karma
24
Comment Karma
20
Profile updated: 3 days ago
Posts updated: 3 days ago
forgottensoulx0
Account Strength
80%
Account Age
6 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
171
Link Karma
160
Comment Karma
11
Profile updated: 15 hours ago
lol2345610
Account Strength
20%
Account Age
2 years
Verified Email
No
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
87
Link Karma
46
Comment Karma
41
Profile updated: 6 days ago
Posts updated: 2 hours ago
twistedtheories-CA
Account Strength
100%
Account Age
1 year
Verified Email
No
Verified Flair
Yes
Total Karma
240
Link Karma
208
Comment Karma
32
Profile updated: 7 hours ago
Posts updated: 1 day ago
Iam_JaeX
Account Strength
100%
Account Age
4 months
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
Yes
Total Karma
223
Link Karma
202
Comment Karma
21
Profile updated: 2 days ago
Posts updated: 14 hours ago
dayonevice
Account Strength
90%
Account Age
10 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
176
Link Karma
94
Comment Karma
82
Profile updated: 1 day ago
NerdyOralGiver4FWB
Account Strength
50%
Account Age
1 year
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
749
Link Karma
572
Comment Karma
177
Profile updated: 2 days ago
Posts updated: 2 weeks ago
aqualad213
Account Strength
100%
Account Age
10 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
18,628
Link Karma
1,231
Comment Karma
17,382
Profile updated: 6 days ago
Posts updated: 1 week ago
 
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to r/SoCalR4R by socalbro4fun
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to r/SoCalR4R by J_arms
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28 [M4F] #InlandEmpire - Looking for women who are gym rats that want a big dick for extra cardio
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to r/SoCalR4R by ElChorizoGuey
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to r/SoCalR4R by republiccityblue
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in Orange County, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by EasyPiano5430
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to r/SoCalR4R by Former_Diver8607
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29 [M4F] #Irvine - AP Broke my heart. Need a rebound.
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to r/SoCalR4R by Emtahl
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to r/SoCalR4R by Cali4fun22
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to r/SoCalR4R by BluishHearts
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43 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Seeking a Faithful, Intelligent, Pretty, Young Lady Who Wants Fun, Friendship, Romance, Receiving, Pleasures, Praise Kinks, Oral, Edging, Making Love, All Day & Night
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in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Iam_JaeX
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28 [M4F] #InlandEmpire - 9 inches. CAN HOST
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in Inland Empire, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Former_Diver8607
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to r/SoCalR4R by FrankieRoo
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39 [M4F] #burbank - looking for a short-term fling or FWB
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to r/SoCalR4R by Steaksandbjs
18 hours ago
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in Fullerton, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by maesterjim
19 hours ago
56 [m4F] #southoc - married M looking for a secret Mistress
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in Orange County, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Zakroth9
19 hours ago
32 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - Looking to make a connection
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in Orange County, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by SomattiArt
19 hours ago
34 [M4F] #SanDiego - Submissive Seeking a Dominant Woman
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in San Diego, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by singleandlonelyfuck
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24 [M4F] #anaheim - feeling lonely?
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