Updated specific locations to be searchable, take a look at Las Vegas as an example.
Southern California
r/SoCalR4R
139,487 subscribers
R4R - The Southern California edition

Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, ride shares, hikers, concert partners, clubs, explorers, exercise pals, political rallies, entrepreneurs, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits [fwb] / casual encounters, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.

For Los Angeles, Orange County, San Diego, and surrounding areas

SoCalR4R Moderators

Last updated: 10/03/2024
• throwitalloutla added 6 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/socalr4rverified)
• PotatoWedges added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• ModeratelyHelpfulBot added 5 years ago (also mods r/GFDpersonals, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/latinas, r/Hotwife, r/boobs, and 195 more...)
• wutwutindabuttbutt added 4 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• XanderAquinas added 4 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• FunInSanDiego added 3 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/CuckqueanCommunity, r/socalr4rverified, r/SanDiegoR4R)
• anthongy added 3 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified, r/Socalswingers)
• BlueC0NVERSE added 2 years ago (also mods r/gonewild, r/TexasGW, r/GirlsinLaceFishnets, r/classysexy, r/BigBoobsGonewild, and 5 more...)
• XOTIC10 added 1 year ago and removed 10 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• lilhotcheeto added 1 year ago and removed 10 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• RedCheeksGuy added 6 months ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob)
• hive-protect added 1 month ago (also mods r/OhioHookups, r/Floridar4r, r/Jacksonviller4r, r/Bulges, r/Precum, and 82 more...)

SoCalR4R Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• Verification Required

Effective 12/07/20, all users must be verified in order to post in this subreddit. If you are not verified, your post will be deleted.

• Title Format

"Age [X4X] #City - Title"

• Posting Requirements

Accounts must be more than 72 hours old.

All users must have at least 10 Post AND 10 Comment Karma to post or comment.

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• Post Limit

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• NSFW Flair

This community is set as a NSFW subreddit, so all posts are automatically tagged as NSFW.

• No Identifying Information

No personal information such as social media, Snapchat, Kik usernames, or phone numbers are allowed in posts or comments. These must be exclusively shared through chat or PMs.

• Absolutely No Exchanging Money/Sex For Any Legal/Illegal Content, Services, Objects, and/or Yourself

This includes OnlyFans, premium Snapchat, findom, and sugaring. Infractions will be immediately deleted, and the poster will be permabanned. This includes those that do not explicitly state it in their posts and/or on their profiles.

• No Advertising

Advertisement of any type of event, service, chat room, or content is not allowed in posts or users' profiles.

• No Illegal Activities

This includes drugs, prostitution, etc.

• Harassment

There is absolutely zero tolerance for harassing other users or inciting violence. Just be a decent human being. It's really not that hard.

• "Messaged u"

Stop commenting this shit on people's posts. They already know.

• Reporting A User

If you are reporting another user for being a scammer, picture collector, fake, etc., you must message the modmail or one of the moderators individually and have some proof (screenshots). We cannot do anything if we can't follow up with the person who made the report.

• 18+ Only

This is an 18+ community only.

• Catfish/Scammer

If you have proof that someone is catfishing/scamming, take a screenshot and send it to the mod team via modmail.

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34 [M4F] #SanDiego - Asian guy looking for fwb
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to r/SoCalR4R by GayBoy7689
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20 [M4M] #LongBeach - Are you a Straight Guy & Horny to Try Anal with an Asian Mixed Gay Boy to Release some Stress
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25 [M4F] #Pasadena - Scorpio Looking for Some Fun, I'm a Pleaser!
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to r/SoCalR4R by Small_Rooster_3480
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29 [M4F] #torrance - tall hung handsome respectful for stag/vix couple or single petite f who likes to be freaky
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to r/SoCalR4R by Dawn_Wolf
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33 [M4F] #losangeles - Asian/White chill nerd looking for likeminded weirdo :3
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to r/SoCalR4R by RobertIgersFace
6 hours ago
32 [M4F] #LongBeach - Fun on a Thursday Night?
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to r/SoCalR4R by Iam_JaeX
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28 [M4F] #InlandEmpire - Long and thick. Looking for a woman who enjoys giving amazing head
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to r/SoCalR4R by republiccityblue
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36 [m4m] #orangecounty - thicc chubby masculine bottom in need of a deep pounding
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to r/SoCalR4R by EscapeHot2790
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26 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - Chill asian looking for a fwb
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to r/SoCalR4R by maesterjim
7 hours ago
56 [m4F] #southoc - married M looking for a secret Mistress
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to r/SoCalR4R by roadtoriches
8 hours ago
30 [M4F] #Irvine - Fit guy 💪 with abs and the prettiest BWC you've ever seen! Need a new long term Asian or Latina fwb in my life
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to r/SoCalR4R by LazyArea4225
8 hours ago
20 [M4F] #MiraMesa - looking for company tonight or tomorrow.
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to r/SoCalR4R by theworsthades
8 hours ago
39 [M4F] #SouthBay - Get some drinks at Dave and Busters?
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to r/SoCalR4R by kukudasss
9 hours ago
27 [M4F] #LA - korean looking for fwb
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to r/SoCalR4R by OddObligation4069
9 hours ago
26 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - Straight male V'I'R'G'I'N here trying my luck. CIS FEMALES ONLY!! NOT paying for illegal services. I am OK with DRIVING TO Inland Empire, LA, the Ventura-Oxnard area, and if by chance there are any Bay Area lurkers, then SF is ok with me too. I could even go as far as Davis.
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to r/SoCalR4R by Kazpa1
9 hours ago
26 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Handsome European Investment Banker Looking to Grab A Drink & Vibe 😇😉
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to r/SoCalR4R by KissTheChef909
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26 [M4F] #Fontana - Thick BBC looking for some good head, possible fwb (Pics on profile)
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to r/SoCalR4R by sauronsays01
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23 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Fulfill your fantasies here!
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to r/SoCalR4R by Throwaway-471
10 hours ago
35 [m4m] #Anaheim - I am a married bottom looking for a married top
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to r/SoCalR4R by AintNuffin2Lose
10 hours ago
28 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Student looking for potential romantic connection or FRIENDS with benefits, emphasis on friends
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to r/SoCalR4R by Dizzy_Method_3875
10 hours ago
34 [M4F] #Gardena - Los Angeles 310 AP/FWB WANTED something real and long term
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to r/SoCalR4R by Deyganwolf
12 hours ago
52 [M4F] #Ventura - 6’2, Hung, Supremely Confident, Laid-Back, Handsome Dominant Looking for a Submissive Girlfriend to Sexually Objectify in a Monogamous Relationship
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to r/SoCalR4R by fonyrobbins
12 hours ago
35 [M4F] #Westhollywood - BWC seeking FWB
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