Updated specific locations to be searchable, take a look at Las Vegas as an example.
Southern California
r/SoCalR4R
139,585 subscribers
R4R - The Southern California edition

Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, ride shares, hikers, concert partners, clubs, explorers, exercise pals, political rallies, entrepreneurs, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits [fwb] / casual encounters, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.

For Los Angeles, Orange County, San Diego, and surrounding areas

SoCalR4R Moderators

Last updated: 10/06/2024
• throwitalloutla added 6 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/socalr4rverified)
• PotatoWedges added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• ModeratelyHelpfulBot added 5 years ago (also mods r/GFDpersonals, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/latinas, r/Hotwife, r/boobs, and 195 more...)
• wutwutindabuttbutt added 4 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• XanderAquinas added 4 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• FunInSanDiego added 3 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/CuckqueanCommunity, r/socalr4rverified, r/SanDiegoR4R)
• anthongy added 3 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified, r/Socalswingers)
• BlueC0NVERSE added 2 years ago (also mods r/gonewild, r/TexasGW, r/GirlsinLaceFishnets, r/classysexy, r/BigBoobsGonewild, and 5 more...)
• XOTIC10 added 1 year ago and removed 11 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• lilhotcheeto added 1 year ago and removed 11 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• RedCheeksGuy added 6 months ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob)
• hive-protect added 2 months ago (also mods r/OhioHookups, r/Floridar4r, r/Jacksonviller4r, r/Bulges, r/Precum, and 85 more...)

SoCalR4R Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• Verification Required

Effective 12/07/20, all users must be verified in order to post in this subreddit. If you are not verified, your post will be deleted.

• Title Format

"Age [X4X] #City - Title"

• Posting Requirements

Accounts must be more than 72 hours old.

All users must have at least 10 Post AND 10 Comment Karma to post or comment.

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• Post Limit

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• NSFW Flair

This community is set as a NSFW subreddit, so all posts are automatically tagged as NSFW.

• No Identifying Information

No personal information such as social media, Snapchat, Kik usernames, or phone numbers are allowed in posts or comments. These must be exclusively shared through chat or PMs.

• Absolutely No Exchanging Money/Sex For Any Legal/Illegal Content, Services, Objects, and/or Yourself

This includes OnlyFans, premium Snapchat, findom, and sugaring. Infractions will be immediately deleted, and the poster will be permabanned. This includes those that do not explicitly state it in their posts and/or on their profiles.

• No Advertising

Advertisement of any type of event, service, chat room, or content is not allowed in posts or users' profiles.

• No Illegal Activities

This includes drugs, prostitution, etc.

• Harassment

There is absolutely zero tolerance for harassing other users or inciting violence. Just be a decent human being. It's really not that hard.

• "Messaged u"

Stop commenting this shit on people's posts. They already know.

• Reporting A User

If you are reporting another user for being a scammer, picture collector, fake, etc., you must message the modmail or one of the moderators individually and have some proof (screenshots). We cannot do anything if we can't follow up with the person who made the report.

• 18+ Only

This is an 18+ community only.

• Catfish/Scammer

If you have proof that someone is catfishing/scamming, take a screenshot and send it to the mod team via modmail.

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3 hours ago
28 [M4F] #CoachellaValley - looking for Partner In Crime/Friend to go to Concerts, Comedy Shows and Sporting events together
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to r/SoCalR4R by sauronsays01
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23 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Fulfill your fantasies here!
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to r/SoCalR4R by roadtoriches
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30 [M4F] #Irvine - Fit guy šŸ’Ŗ with abs and the prettiest BWC you've ever seen! Need a new long term Asian or Latina fwb in my life
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to r/SoCalR4R by mikeyjonesnyc
5 hours ago
37 [m4f] #OrangeCounty - Let's cuddle and sensually makeout together
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to r/SoCalR4R by Unlisted12345
5 hours ago
44 [M4F] #LosAngeles - I've developed a thing for younger women, and I need to see how bad it has gotten
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to r/SoCalR4R by ZonessStar
6 hours ago
36 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Erotic Massage
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to r/SoCalR4R by BluishHearts
7 hours ago
43 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Seeking a faithful, intelligent, attractive young lady for friendship, romance, chemistry, loving, learning, exploring, receiving pleasures with mind, body bliss
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to r/SoCalR4R by Zander29
8 hours ago
30 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Muscular & Fit looking for fun
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to r/SoCalR4R by DukeDeGuerre
9 hours ago
37 [M4F] #SanDiego - Party with Molly
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to r/SoCalR4R by Zakroth9
10 hours ago
31 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - looking to make a connection
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to r/SoCalR4R by SSOliverAllen
11 hours ago
33 [M4R] #SanDiego - Hush
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to r/SoCalR4R by muff_luver
13 hours ago
45 [M4F] #SealBeach - Erotic Massage 4 the Ladies!
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to r/SoCalR4R by ParkLost6889
15 hours ago
18 [M4A] #losangeles - I just want to hang out nothing sexual stop dming me for that
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to r/SoCalR4R by mystery-machine-nyc
16 hours ago
29 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - Work trip meet up
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to r/SoCalR4R by boybust
17 hours ago
33 [M4F] #losangeles - Nerdy half asian straight switchy guy looking for a girl whose curious about exploring ballbusting
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to r/SoCalR4R by Throwaway-471
17 hours ago
35 [m4m] #Anaheim - Looking for a safe and discreet TOP to Pound me.
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to r/SoCalR4R by 626SGVGuy
18 hours ago
45 [M4F] #Pasadena - Married looking for next AP
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to r/SoCalR4R by EduBricks
18 hours ago
30 [M4M] #LongBeach - Looking for chubby males
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to r/SoCalR4R by Jedi26000
19 hours ago
51 [M4F] #northridge - older man looking for young fit athletic kinky woman for ongoing fwb
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to r/SoCalR4R by ElChorizoGuey
21 hours ago
30 [M4F] #Downey - half Guatemalan half Mexican, 6'1," looking to go down on a woman
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to r/SoCalR4R by danthrowaway715
21 hours ago
32 [M4F] #LosAngeles - In search of a fun, consistent FWB
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to r/SoCalR4R by CurlyStachDaddyBeard
22 hours ago
39 [M4F] #Riverside - iso a cool chill female to play silent hill 2 and more with and watch scary movies with.šŸŽƒ
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to r/SoCalR4R by No_Particular_2363
1 day ago
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to r/SoCalR4R by roadtoriches
1 day ago
30 [M4F] #Irvine - Fit guy šŸ’Ŗ with abs and the prettiest BWC you've ever seen! Need a new long term Asian or Latina fwb in my life
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to r/SoCalR4R by mikeyjonesnyc
1 day ago
37 [m4f] #OrangeCounty - Are you turned on by the thought of encountering an uncut cock during a hookup
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