Updated specific locations to be searchable, take a look at Las Vegas as an example.
Southern California
r/SoCalR4R
139,807 subscribers
R4R - The Southern California edition

Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, ride shares, hikers, concert partners, clubs, explorers, exercise pals, political rallies, entrepreneurs, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits [fwb] / casual encounters, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.

For Los Angeles, Orange County, San Diego, and surrounding areas

SoCalR4R Moderators

Last updated: 10/15/2024
• throwitalloutla added 6 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/socalr4rverified)
• PotatoWedges added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• ModeratelyHelpfulBot added 5 years ago (also mods r/GFDpersonals, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/latinas, r/Hotwife, r/boobs, and 195 more...)
• wutwutindabuttbutt added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• XanderAquinas added 4 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• FunInSanDiego added 3 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/CuckqueanCommunity, r/socalr4rverified, r/SanDiegoR4R)
• anthongy added 3 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified, r/Socalswingers)
• BlueC0NVERSE added 2 years ago (also mods r/gonewild, r/TexasGW, r/GirlsinLaceFishnets, r/classysexy, r/BigBoobsGonewild, and 5 more...)
• XOTIC10 added 1 year ago and removed 21 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• lilhotcheeto added 1 year ago and removed 21 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• RedCheeksGuy added 7 months ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob)
• hive-protect added 2 months ago (also mods r/OhioHookups, r/Floridar4r, r/Jacksonviller4r, r/Bulges, r/Precum, and 85 more...)

SoCalR4R Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• Verification Required

Effective 12/07/20, all users must be verified in order to post in this subreddit. If you are not verified, your post will be deleted.

• Title Format

"Age [X4X] #City - Title"

• Posting Requirements

Accounts must be more than 72 hours old.

All users must have at least 10 Post AND 10 Comment Karma to post or comment.

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• Post Limit

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• NSFW Flair

This community is set as a NSFW subreddit, so all posts are automatically tagged as NSFW.

• No Identifying Information

No personal information such as social media, Snapchat, Kik usernames, or phone numbers are allowed in posts or comments. These must be exclusively shared through chat or PMs.

• Absolutely No Exchanging Money/Sex For Any Legal/Illegal Content, Services, Objects, and/or Yourself

This includes OnlyFans, premium Snapchat, findom, and sugaring. Infractions will be immediately deleted, and the poster will be permabanned. This includes those that do not explicitly state it in their posts and/or on their profiles.

• No Advertising

Advertisement of any type of event, service, chat room, or content is not allowed in posts or users' profiles.

• No Illegal Activities

This includes drugs, prostitution, etc.

• Harassment

There is absolutely zero tolerance for harassing other users or inciting violence. Just be a decent human being. It's really not that hard.

• "Messaged u"

Stop commenting this shit on people's posts. They already know.

• Reporting A User

If you are reporting another user for being a scammer, picture collector, fake, etc., you must message the modmail or one of the moderators individually and have some proof (screenshots). We cannot do anything if we can't follow up with the person who made the report.

• 18+ Only

This is an 18+ community only.

• Catfish/Scammer

If you have proof that someone is catfishing/scamming, take a screenshot and send it to the mod team via modmail.

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prettehkitteh_
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SomattiArt
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3 years
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lowerbaby78
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sauronsays01
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popat_1986
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Uscbruins
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Profile updated: 4 hours ago
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nullbeginnings
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60%
Account Age
3 years
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10
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Profile updated: 3 days ago
Posts updated: 1 day ago
socalbro4fun
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1 month
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83
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Profile updated: 3 days ago
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TheTallBrownie
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to r/SoCalR4R by Legitimate_Relation8
52 minutes ago
23 [M4F] #Westwood - Fun after work
M4F M4F
in Westwood, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Kingcrims0n__
52 minutes ago
25 [M4F] #Norwalk - Looking for plus size fun
M4F M4F
in Norwalk
to r/SoCalR4R by J_arms
1 hour ago
28 [M4F] #InlandEmpire - Amazing 9 inch dick. Looking for a woman who absolutely loves to give head. Can Host
M4F M4F
in Inland Empire, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Cali4fun22
3 hours ago
40 [m4f] #murrieta - Submissive female wanted to explore with
M4F M4F
in murrieta
to r/SoCalR4R by twistedtheories-CA
4 hours ago
29 [M4F] #Redlands - single, attached or coupled to the front.
M4F
in Redlands, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Im_GivinUp_9in
6 hours ago
37 [M4F] #torrance - BBC gym partner
M4F M4F
in Torrance, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by ElChorizoGuey
7 hours ago
30 [M4F] #Downey - Mexican-Guatemalan, 6'1," looking to go down on a woman
M4F M4F
in guatemala
to r/SoCalR4R by jothrow2024
7 hours ago
50 [M4F] #ShermanOaks - Pleasure Dom Wants to Make You Cum
M4F M4F
in ShermanOaks
to r/SoCalR4R by CurlyStachDaddyBeard
10 hours ago
39 [M4F] #JurupaValley - iso a cool chill female to play silent hill 2, alan wake etc and more with and watch scary movies wit and chill fwb style🎃
M4F M4F
in JurupaValley
to r/SoCalR4R by Unlisted12345
13 hours ago
44 [M4F] #LosAngeles - I've developed a thing for younger women, and I need to see how bad it has gotten
M4F M4F
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by TheTallBrownie
13 hours ago
28 [M4F] #BuenaPark - looking for an archery partner!
M4F
in BuenaPark
to r/SoCalR4R by socalbro4fun
14 hours ago
31 [M4M] #Torrance - Discreet bro looking for another bro to develop both a bromance / fwb relationship with. Need some boyfriend dick who will let me ride him on the reg. Straight bros in public, fuck buddies in private.
M4M M4M
in Torrance, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by GayBoy7689
16 hours ago
20 [M4M] #Torrance - Are you a Straight Guy & Horny to Fuck a Tight Asian Mixed Gay Boy Ass to Release a Load
M4M M4M
in Torrance, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by banana_jun
16 hours ago
29 [M4F] #SanDiego - winter cuddles
M4F M4F
in San Diego, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Final-Pickle-8055
16 hours ago
23 [M4M] #Oceanside - Bottom for top
M4M M4M
in Oceanside, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Curiosity2003
16 hours ago
21 [M4MF] #Cerritos - I have an apartment to myself, come over and let's have some fun! Looking for some fun new experiences with a couple or single woman who won't flake!
M4MF M4R
in Cerritos, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by throwawayskrythe
17 hours ago
30 [M4F] #DTLA - Handsome, fit professional looking for low-pressure connection with younger woman for spooky season (and beyond)
M4F M4F
in Downtown, LA
to r/SoCalR4R by nullbeginnings
19 hours ago
22 [M4F] #LosAngeles - I just wanna chill and eat some pussy
M4F M4F
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Cowboy_Auctioneer
20 hours ago
27 [M4MF] #InlandEmpire - looking for couples to grab drinks with and see where things go
M4MF Couples
in Inland Empire, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Uscbruins
20 hours ago
35 [M4F] #sandiego - Inexperienced, Looking for someone understanding
M4F M4F
in San Diego, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by katsubo_throwaway
21 hours ago
23 [M4F] #Anaheim - Chill and surprisingly normal Korean-mixed gamer seeking simple fun
M4F M4F
in Anaheim, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by SleeplessWestCoast
21 hours ago
32 [M4F] #Murrieta - I'm not afraid to... Fall... for someone this spooky season, what about you?
M4F M4F
in murrieta
to r/SoCalR4R by Sea_Eggplant_3983
21 hours ago
21 [M4MF] #InlandEmpire - Bi looking for bwc, couples of all kinds
M4MF Couples
in Inland Empire, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by SomattiArt
21 hours ago
34 [M4F] #SanDiego - Submissive Seeking a Dominant Woman
M4F M4F
in San Diego, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by popat_1986
22 hours ago
38 [M4F] #Irvine - I want to give a chubby lady a massage
M4F M4F
in Irvine, CA