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r/SoCalR4R
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R4R - The Southern California edition

Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, ride shares, hikers, concert partners, clubs, explorers, exercise pals, political rallies, entrepreneurs, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits [fwb] / casual encounters, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.

For Los Angeles, Orange County, San Diego, and surrounding areas

SoCalR4R Moderators

Last updated: 10/25/2024
• throwitalloutla added 6 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/socalr4rverified)
• PotatoWedges added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• ModeratelyHelpfulBot added 5 years ago (also mods r/GFDpersonals, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/latinas, r/Hotwife, r/boobs, and 195 more...)
• wutwutindabuttbutt added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• XanderAquinas added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• FunInSanDiego added 3 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/CuckqueanCommunity, r/socalr4rverified, r/SanDiegoR4R)
• anthongy added 3 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified, r/Socalswingers)
• BlueC0NVERSE added 2 years ago (also mods r/gonewild, r/TexasGW, r/GirlsinLaceFishnets, r/classysexy, r/BigBoobsGonewild, and 5 more...)
• XOTIC10 added 1 year ago and removed 21 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• lilhotcheeto added 1 year ago and removed 21 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• RedCheeksGuy added 7 months ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob)
• hive-protect added 2 months ago (also mods r/OhioHookups, r/Floridar4r, r/Jacksonviller4r, r/Bulges, r/Precum, and 88 more...)

SoCalR4R Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• Verification Required

Effective 12/07/20, all users must be verified in order to post in this subreddit. If you are not verified, your post will be deleted.

• Title Format

"Age [X4X] #City - Title"

• Posting Requirements

Accounts must be more than 72 hours old.

All users must have at least 10 Post AND 10 Comment Karma to post or comment.

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• Post Limit

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• NSFW Flair

This community is set as a NSFW subreddit, so all posts are automatically tagged as NSFW.

• No Identifying Information

No personal information such as social media, Snapchat, Kik usernames, or phone numbers are allowed in posts or comments. These must be exclusively shared through chat or PMs.

• Absolutely No Exchanging Money/Sex For Any Legal/Illegal Content, Services, Objects, and/or Yourself

This includes OnlyFans, premium Snapchat, findom, and sugaring. Infractions will be immediately deleted, and the poster will be permabanned. This includes those that do not explicitly state it in their posts and/or on their profiles.

• No Advertising

Advertisement of any type of event, service, chat room, or content is not allowed in posts or users' profiles.

• No Illegal Activities

This includes drugs, prostitution, etc.

• Harassment

There is absolutely zero tolerance for harassing other users or inciting violence. Just be a decent human being. It's really not that hard.

• "Messaged u"

Stop commenting this shit on people's posts. They already know.

• Reporting A User

If you are reporting another user for being a scammer, picture collector, fake, etc., you must message the modmail or one of the moderators individually and have some proof (screenshots). We cannot do anything if we can't follow up with the person who made the report.

• 18+ Only

This is an 18+ community only.

• Catfish/Scammer

If you have proof that someone is catfishing/scamming, take a screenshot and send it to the mod team via modmail.

In the last day...
There have been 43 posts
By 43 authors
Top authors today @ r/SoCalR4R
NymphoNerd13
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
3 months
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
61
Link Karma
51
Comment Karma
10
Profile updated: 5 days ago
Posts updated: 1 week ago
Junior-Arm8069
Account Strength
0%
Account Age
1 week
Verified Email
No
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
186
Link Karma
160
Comment Karma
26
Profile updated: 4 days ago
Posts updated: 1 day ago
28wildflowers
Account Strength
60%
Account Age
1 year
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
1,863
Link Karma
1,732
Comment Karma
131
Profile updated: 1 day ago
Posts updated: 3 weeks ago
maxintensity
Account Strength
100%
Account Age
5 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
12,879
Link Karma
335
Comment Karma
12,445
Profile updated: 4 days ago
Posts updated: 2 hours ago
theknottymommaca01
Account Strength
30%
Account Age
2 weeks
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
224
Link Karma
81
Comment Karma
143
Profile updated: 1 day ago
sad-cow03
Account Strength
70%
Account Age
4 years
Verified Email
No
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
3,052
Link Karma
1,681
Comment Karma
1,242
Profile updated: 4 days ago
Posts updated: 1 day ago
socalbro4fun
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
1 month
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
155
Link Karma
119
Comment Karma
36
Profile updated: 4 hours ago
Posts updated: 1 week ago
Ok-Living-5853
Account Strength
60%
Account Age
2 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
1,270
Link Karma
126
Comment Karma
1,144
Profile updated: 7 hours ago
Posts updated: 2 days ago
Rstone3988
Account Strength
100%
Account Age
4 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
931
Link Karma
203
Comment Karma
673
Profile updated: 2 days ago
Posts updated: 2 days ago
IZABFFR
Account Strength
60%
Account Age
1 year
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
1,690
Link Karma
1,662
Comment Karma
28
Profile updated: 5 days ago
Posts updated: 1 month ago
 
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35 [M4F] #MissionViejo - Tall & Fit looking for car play now or in the near future!
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