Updated specific locations to be searchable, take a look at Las Vegas as an example.
Southern California
r/SoCalR4R
139,450 subscribers
R4R - The Southern California edition

Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, ride shares, hikers, concert partners, clubs, explorers, exercise pals, political rallies, entrepreneurs, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits [fwb] / casual encounters, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.

For Los Angeles, Orange County, San Diego, and surrounding areas

SoCalR4R Moderators

Last updated: 10/02/2024
• throwitalloutla added 6 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/socalr4rverified)
• PotatoWedges added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• ModeratelyHelpfulBot added 5 years ago (also mods r/GFDpersonals, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/latinas, r/Hotwife, r/boobs, and 195 more...)
• wutwutindabuttbutt added 4 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• XanderAquinas added 4 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• FunInSanDiego added 3 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/CuckqueanCommunity, r/socalr4rverified, r/SanDiegoR4R)
• anthongy added 3 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified, r/Socalswingers)
• BlueC0NVERSE added 2 years ago (also mods r/gonewild, r/TexasGW, r/GirlsinLaceFishnets, r/classysexy, r/BigBoobsGonewild, and 5 more...)
• XOTIC10 added 1 year ago and removed 20 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• lilhotcheeto added 1 year ago and removed 20 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• RedCheeksGuy added 6 months ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob)
• hive-protect added 1 month ago (also mods r/OhioHookups, r/Floridar4r, r/Jacksonviller4r, r/Bulges, r/Precum, and 82 more...)

SoCalR4R Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• Verification Required

Effective 12/07/20, all users must be verified in order to post in this subreddit. If you are not verified, your post will be deleted.

• Title Format

"Age [X4X] #City - Title"

• Posting Requirements

Accounts must be more than 72 hours old.

All users must have at least 10 Post AND 10 Comment Karma to post or comment.

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• Post Limit

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• NSFW Flair

This community is set as a NSFW subreddit, so all posts are automatically tagged as NSFW.

• No Identifying Information

No personal information such as social media, Snapchat, Kik usernames, or phone numbers are allowed in posts or comments. These must be exclusively shared through chat or PMs.

• Absolutely No Exchanging Money/Sex For Any Legal/Illegal Content, Services, Objects, and/or Yourself

This includes OnlyFans, premium Snapchat, findom, and sugaring. Infractions will be immediately deleted, and the poster will be permabanned. This includes those that do not explicitly state it in their posts and/or on their profiles.

• No Advertising

Advertisement of any type of event, service, chat room, or content is not allowed in posts or users' profiles.

• No Illegal Activities

This includes drugs, prostitution, etc.

• Harassment

There is absolutely zero tolerance for harassing other users or inciting violence. Just be a decent human being. It's really not that hard.

• "Messaged u"

Stop commenting this shit on people's posts. They already know.

• Reporting A User

If you are reporting another user for being a scammer, picture collector, fake, etc., you must message the modmail or one of the moderators individually and have some proof (screenshots). We cannot do anything if we can't follow up with the person who made the report.

• 18+ Only

This is an 18+ community only.

• Catfish/Scammer

If you have proof that someone is catfishing/scamming, take a screenshot and send it to the mod team via modmail.

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to r/SoCalR4R by maesterjim
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56 [m4F] #southoc - married M looking for a secret Mistress
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to r/SoCalR4R by BluishHearts
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43 [M4F] #LosFeliz - Seeking a faithful, soft-kink curious, intelligent, attractive young lady for friendship, romance, chemistry, exploring, giving, receiving, amazing sexy loving
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to r/SoCalR4R by LaserSunset
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34 [M4F] #WestLA - Looking for someone to sail through life with
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to r/SoCalR4R by Iam_JaeX
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28 [M4F] #InlandEmpire - Long and thick. Looking for a woman who enjoys giving amazing head
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to r/SoCalR4R by TacosNSex
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28 [M4F] #SanDiego - Looking for a kinky shy girl to pound & cuddle 😏, fwb [PICS]
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to r/SoCalR4R by JustLettuceBe
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31 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - Skip The Roller Coaster, Ride My Face
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to r/SoCalR4R by diveanddine
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30 [M4F] #StudioCity - It's spooky season and Casper the Horny Ghost is looking for a Thicc/Voluptuous pillow princess
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to r/SoCalR4R by skinnyhung
4 hours ago
38 [M4F] #Irvine - Any women into tall, skinny, and hung?
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to r/SoCalR4R by roadtoriches
4 hours ago
30 [M4F] #Irvine - Fit guy 💪 with abs and the prettiest BWC you've ever seen! Need a new long term Asian or Latina fwb in my life
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to r/SoCalR4R by jholloway69
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25 [M4F] #SantaClarita - would love to suck on your big breasts
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to r/SoCalR4R by Go-Easy-On-Me
5 hours ago
33 [m4m] #BreaOC - Lets cuddle (Bear here)
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to r/SoCalR4R by ThrowAwayNickDTLA
6 hours ago
42 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Fall is here, new friend to chill and do fun stuff with?
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to r/SoCalR4R by 714youngbull
7 hours ago
29 [M4F] #LosAngeles - I want to go down on you and have sloppy seconds after you have sex with someone
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to r/SoCalR4R by Deyganwolf
10 hours ago
52 [M4F] #Ventura - 6’2, Hung, Supremely Confident, Laid-Back, Handsome Dominant Looking for a Submissive Girlfriend to Sexually Objectify in a Monogamous Relationship
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to r/SoCalR4R by Uscbruins
11 hours ago
35 [M4F] #sandiego - Inexperienced, Looking for someone understanding
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to r/SoCalR4R by Muffinhead223
11 hours ago
18 [M4F] #panoramacity - Looking for any body type female to fuck
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to r/SoCalR4R by Rstone3988
12 hours ago
39 [M4F] #Anaheim - Pleasure Dom looking for a quality FWB who can match my appetite! White, 6’5, normal, clean, and respectful.
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to r/SoCalR4R by J_arms
12 hours ago
28 [M4F] #InlandEmpire - 9 inches and thick. Can host during the day. Looking for a open minded FWB
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to r/SoCalR4R by Gheetarist
13 hours ago
35 [M4F] #CenturyCity - athlete visiting until Friday. Pics in profile
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to r/SoCalR4R by ImprovementSuch9980
15 hours ago
30 [M4MF] #OC - bbc interested in watching couple
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to r/SoCalR4R by ElChorizoGuey
15 hours ago
30 [M4F] #Downey - half Guatemalan half Mexican, 6'1," looking to go down on a woman
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to r/SoCalR4R by tim89112
16 hours ago
35 [M4F] #LAX - hotel near airport, let’s get it
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to r/SoCalR4R by socalbro4fun
22 hours ago
25 [M4M] #PalosVerdes - Latino bottom boy in Los Angeles seeking a big top Daddy cock for kisses, cuddles, & cock inside me! Clap my cheeks Daddy? Breed me & make me your boy! Love men older than me!! Love straight & married men! South Bay area
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to r/SoCalR4R by axl9255
1 day ago
31 [M4F] #Orange - Need a massage? My head in between your legs? Or just want to get pounded?
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to r/SoCalR4R by GayBoy7689
1 day ago
20 [M4M] #Torrance - Are you a Straight Guy & Horny to Try Anal with an Asian Mixed Gay Boy to Release some Stress
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