New filters on the Home Feed, take a look!
view details
Southern California
r/SoCalR4R
139,976 subscribers
R4R - The Southern California edition

Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, ride shares, hikers, concert partners, clubs, explorers, exercise pals, political rallies, entrepreneurs, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits [fwb] / casual encounters, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.

For Los Angeles, Orange County, San Diego, and surrounding areas

SoCalR4R Moderators

Last updated: 10/23/2024
• throwitalloutla added 6 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/socalr4rverified)
• PotatoWedges added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• ModeratelyHelpfulBot added 5 years ago (also mods r/GFDpersonals, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/latinas, r/Hotwife, r/boobs, and 195 more...)
• wutwutindabuttbutt added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• XanderAquinas added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• FunInSanDiego added 3 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/CuckqueanCommunity, r/socalr4rverified, r/SanDiegoR4R)
• anthongy added 3 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified, r/Socalswingers)
• BlueC0NVERSE added 2 years ago (also mods r/gonewild, r/TexasGW, r/GirlsinLaceFishnets, r/classysexy, r/BigBoobsGonewild, and 5 more...)
• XOTIC10 added 1 year ago and removed 22 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• lilhotcheeto added 1 year ago and removed 22 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• RedCheeksGuy added 7 months ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob)
• hive-protect added 2 months ago (also mods r/OhioHookups, r/Floridar4r, r/Jacksonviller4r, r/Bulges, r/Precum, and 88 more...)

SoCalR4R Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• Verification Required

Effective 12/07/20, all users must be verified in order to post in this subreddit. If you are not verified, your post will be deleted.

• Title Format

"Age [X4X] #City - Title"

• Posting Requirements

Accounts must be more than 72 hours old.

All users must have at least 10 Post AND 10 Comment Karma to post or comment.

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• Post Limit

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• NSFW Flair

This community is set as a NSFW subreddit, so all posts are automatically tagged as NSFW.

• No Identifying Information

No personal information such as social media, Snapchat, Kik usernames, or phone numbers are allowed in posts or comments. These must be exclusively shared through chat or PMs.

• Absolutely No Exchanging Money/Sex For Any Legal/Illegal Content, Services, Objects, and/or Yourself

This includes OnlyFans, premium Snapchat, findom, and sugaring. Infractions will be immediately deleted, and the poster will be permabanned. This includes those that do not explicitly state it in their posts and/or on their profiles.

• No Advertising

Advertisement of any type of event, service, chat room, or content is not allowed in posts or users' profiles.

• No Illegal Activities

This includes drugs, prostitution, etc.

• Harassment

There is absolutely zero tolerance for harassing other users or inciting violence. Just be a decent human being. It's really not that hard.

• "Messaged u"

Stop commenting this shit on people's posts. They already know.

• Reporting A User

If you are reporting another user for being a scammer, picture collector, fake, etc., you must message the modmail or one of the moderators individually and have some proof (screenshots). We cannot do anything if we can't follow up with the person who made the report.

• 18+ Only

This is an 18+ community only.

• Catfish/Scammer

If you have proof that someone is catfishing/scamming, take a screenshot and send it to the mod team via modmail.

In the last day...
There have been 26 posts
By 26 authors
Top authors today @ r/SoCalR4R
LAfemme-CDsissy
Account Strength
20%
Account Age
10 months
Verified Email
No
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
1,004
Link Karma
934
Comment Karma
70
Profile updated: 13 hours ago
Posts updated: 5 days ago
ThrowawaywhiteguyOC
Account Strength
30%
Account Age
2 months
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
284
Link Karma
16
Comment Karma
268
Profile updated: 5 hours ago
Posts updated: 3 days ago
Anxious_Attorney7085
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
1 month
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
35
Link Karma
18
Comment Karma
17
Profile updated: 1 day ago
Posts updated: 4 days ago
Own_Round276
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
9 months
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
85
Link Karma
42
Comment Karma
43
Profile updated: 3 days ago
Posts updated: 2 weeks ago
SoundsNeat
Account Strength
60%
Account Age
1 year
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
627
Link Karma
606
Comment Karma
21
Profile updated: 1 day ago
Posts updated: 1 month ago
twistedtheories-CA
Account Strength
100%
Account Age
1 year
Verified Email
No
Verified Flair
Yes
Total Karma
240
Link Karma
208
Comment Karma
32
Profile updated: 4 days ago
Posts updated: 5 days ago
throwaway_nsfw88
Account Strength
100%
Account Age
2 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
Yes
Total Karma
40
Link Karma
15
Comment Karma
25
Profile updated: 1 day ago
Posts updated: 2 days ago
xMayaxVerasx
Account Strength
60%
Account Age
1 year
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
1,247
Link Karma
816
Comment Karma
240
Profile updated: 3 days ago
Posts updated: 1 day ago
2KEe_
Account Strength
Pending
Account Age
n/a
Verified Email
No
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
n/a
Link Karma
n/a
Comment Karma
n/a
Profile update pending..
Successful-Relative4
Account Strength
80%
Account Age
4 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
48
Link Karma
25
Comment Karma
23
Profile updated: 2 days ago
Posts updated: 3 days ago
 
Browse by flair
M4F ♂ Verified F4M ♀ Verified M4M ⚲ Verified Couples M4R F4F F4R ♂♀ Verified ♂ Verified ♀ Verified T4M ⚧ Verified R4R Success Platonic META the best M4R Moderator F4M M4M ♂ Verified Announcement R4R M4T T4F Couples view more
New Top (24hr) Top (Week) Top (Month)
to r/SoCalR4R by Iam_JaeX
53 minutes ago
28 [M4F] #InlandEmpire - 9 inches and thick. Looking for a woman who absolutely loves to give head
M4F M4F
in Inland Empire, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by ElChorizoGuey
1 hour ago
30 [M4F] #Downey - Mexican-Guatemalan, 6'1," looking to go down on a woman
M4F M4F
in guatemala
to r/SoCalR4R by Personal-Rise-2224
3 hours ago
37 [M4F] #SanGabrielValley - Looking
M4F M4F
in San Gabriel, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by sad-cow03
6 hours ago
21 [M4F] #LosAngeles - 5’7 fit pics on profile
M4F M4F
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Roykunt123
9 hours ago
25 [m4f] #lapuente - let’s grab a drink and a room(pics in profile)
M4F M4F
in lapuente
to r/SoCalR4R by wanderlust009
10 hours ago
34 [M4F] #SanDiego - Asian guy looking to connect!
M4F M4F
in San Diego, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Anxious_Attorney7085
12 hours ago
30 [M4F] #NewportBeach - Looking for a Petite Gen Z Sub
M4F M4F
in Newport Beach, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by AnnoymousPenguin
14 hours ago
28 [M4F] #NorthHollywood - Seeking something new and exciting
M4F M4F
in northhollywood
to r/SoCalR4R by SomattiArt
15 hours ago
34 [M4F] #SanDiego - Submissive Seeking a Dominant Woman
M4F M4F
in San Diego, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Curiosity2003
15 hours ago
21 [M4MF] #Cerritos - Looking to host a couple or woman at my apartment for some fun!
M4MF M4R
in Cerritos, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by ThrowawaywhiteguyOC
16 hours ago
54 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - Gentleman Dad Seeks a Much Younger Companion to Explore the Age Gap Dynamic
M4F M4F
in Orange County, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by DifficultIntention1
17 hours ago
35 [M4F] #LosAngeles - I’d love to give you a massage
M4F M4F
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by socalcumm
18 hours ago
35 [M4F] #Irvine - Anonymous Backseat Fuck
M4F M4F
in Irvine, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by KingLumpia_
18 hours ago
24 [M4F] #LosAngeles - risky public play/ car play
M4F M4F
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by sauronsays01
19 hours ago
23 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Big boy available for your pleasure!
M4F M4F
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Successful-Relative4
19 hours ago
22 [M4F] #losangeles - Looking for one time shower sex or toy play
M4F M4F
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by atomix1337atomix
21 hours ago
50 [M4F] #encino - Married: Engaging conversation first please; the best sex requires good chemistry
M4F M4F
in Encino, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by 2KEe_
22 hours ago
29 [M4F] #Torrance - MILF fun
M4F M4F
in Torrance, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by throwaway_nsfw88
22 hours ago
33 [M4F] #SanDiego - Looking for make out pillow princess/fwb
M4F M4F
in San Diego, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by twistedtheories-CA
22 hours ago
29 [M4F] #Redlands - single, attached or coupled to the front.
M4F
in Redlands, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by SoundsNeat
23 hours ago
45 [M4F] #SycamoreCanyon - Mountain Bike friends
M4F M4F
in SycamoreCanyon
to r/SoCalR4R by ElChorizoGuey
1 day ago
30 [M4F] #Downey - Mexican-Guatemalan, 6'1," looking to go down on a woman
M4F M4F
in guatemala
to r/SoCalR4R by Mateo-hernan27
1 day ago
23 [M4F] #Irvine - Driving a lot for work would love to do some housework while your bfs away ;)
M4F M4F
in Irvine, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by DamnRye
1 day ago
40 [M4F] #Riverside - Morning fun
M4F M4F
in Riverside, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by LBCGHSissy
1 day ago
40 [M4M] #Artesia - Gloryhole open today from now until 4:30pm. Walk in, get sucked off and/or jacked with pussy fleshlight, blow and go. Also might be down to get my big phat bussy fucked if it comes to that (safe only). Str8/military/asian++
M4M M4M
in Artesia, CA