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r/SoCalR4R
139,921 subscribers
R4R - The Southern California edition

Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, ride shares, hikers, concert partners, clubs, explorers, exercise pals, political rallies, entrepreneurs, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits [fwb] / casual encounters, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.

For Los Angeles, Orange County, San Diego, and surrounding areas

SoCalR4R Moderators

Last updated: 10/22/2024
• throwitalloutla added 6 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/socalr4rverified)
• PotatoWedges added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• ModeratelyHelpfulBot added 5 years ago (also mods r/GFDpersonals, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/latinas, r/Hotwife, r/boobs, and 195 more...)
• wutwutindabuttbutt added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• XanderAquinas added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• FunInSanDiego added 3 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/CuckqueanCommunity, r/socalr4rverified, r/SanDiegoR4R)
• anthongy added 3 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified, r/Socalswingers)
• BlueC0NVERSE added 2 years ago (also mods r/gonewild, r/TexasGW, r/GirlsinLaceFishnets, r/classysexy, r/BigBoobsGonewild, and 5 more...)
• XOTIC10 added 1 year ago and removed 17 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• lilhotcheeto added 1 year ago and removed 17 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• RedCheeksGuy added 7 months ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob)
• hive-protect added 2 months ago (also mods r/OhioHookups, r/Floridar4r, r/Jacksonviller4r, r/Bulges, r/Precum, and 88 more...)

SoCalR4R Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• Verification Required

Effective 12/07/20, all users must be verified in order to post in this subreddit. If you are not verified, your post will be deleted.

• Title Format

"Age [X4X] #City - Title"

• Posting Requirements

Accounts must be more than 72 hours old.

All users must have at least 10 Post AND 10 Comment Karma to post or comment.

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• Post Limit

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• NSFW Flair

This community is set as a NSFW subreddit, so all posts are automatically tagged as NSFW.

• No Identifying Information

No personal information such as social media, Snapchat, Kik usernames, or phone numbers are allowed in posts or comments. These must be exclusively shared through chat or PMs.

• Absolutely No Exchanging Money/Sex For Any Legal/Illegal Content, Services, Objects, and/or Yourself

This includes OnlyFans, premium Snapchat, findom, and sugaring. Infractions will be immediately deleted, and the poster will be permabanned. This includes those that do not explicitly state it in their posts and/or on their profiles.

• No Advertising

Advertisement of any type of event, service, chat room, or content is not allowed in posts or users' profiles.

• No Illegal Activities

This includes drugs, prostitution, etc.

• Harassment

There is absolutely zero tolerance for harassing other users or inciting violence. Just be a decent human being. It's really not that hard.

• "Messaged u"

Stop commenting this shit on people's posts. They already know.

• Reporting A User

If you are reporting another user for being a scammer, picture collector, fake, etc., you must message the modmail or one of the moderators individually and have some proof (screenshots). We cannot do anything if we can't follow up with the person who made the report.

• 18+ Only

This is an 18+ community only.

• Catfish/Scammer

If you have proof that someone is catfishing/scamming, take a screenshot and send it to the mod team via modmail.

In the last day...
There have been 39 posts
By 39 authors
Top authors today @ r/SoCalR4R
jonewaste
Account Strength
60%
Account Age
1 year
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
1,778
Link Karma
1,671
Comment Karma
107
Profile updated: 3 days ago
scjockid
Account Strength
100%
Account Age
4 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
990
Link Karma
702
Comment Karma
288
Profile updated: 4 hours ago
Posts updated: 4 days ago
Jolly_Parfait_7139
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
1 year
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
28
Link Karma
4
Comment Karma
24
Profile updated: 4 days ago
Posts updated: 3 days ago
mrmysticmyth
Account Strength
90%
Account Age
6 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
159
Link Karma
115
Comment Karma
29
Profile updated: 5 days ago
Posts updated: 1 day ago
illtryanythingoncee
Account Strength
100%
Account Age
5 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
Yes
Total Karma
356
Link Karma
92
Comment Karma
264
Profile updated: 4 days ago
Posts updated: 1 year ago
Clear-Control-5728
Account Strength
100%
Account Age
4 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
Yes
Total Karma
1,178
Link Karma
32
Comment Karma
1,146
Profile updated: 15 hours ago
Posts updated: 1 week ago
sauronsays01
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
5 months
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
202
Link Karma
117
Comment Karma
85
Profile updated: 1 day ago
Posts updated: 2 days ago
Dawn_Wolf
Account Strength
100%
Account Age
9 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
Yes
Total Karma
5,959
Link Karma
1,435
Comment Karma
4,524
Profile updated: 1 day ago
Posts updated: 2 days ago
throwawayskrythe
Account Strength
80%
Account Age
4 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
62
Link Karma
19
Comment Karma
43
Profile updated: 3 days ago
Posts updated: 1 month ago
CurlyStachDaddyBeard
Account Strength
100%
Account Age
1 year
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
Yes
Total Karma
319
Link Karma
269
Comment Karma
50
Profile updated: 2 days ago
Posts updated: 4 days ago
 
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to r/SoCalR4R by nicemike69
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36 [M4F] #losAngeles - got head ?
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to r/SoCalR4R by HomeyKrogerSage
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to r/SoCalR4R by rainman654321
1 hour ago
40 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - just landed and want to have some fun.
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in Orange County, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by BusinessDick85
2 hours ago
37 [M4F] #Irvine - Looking for some fun while visiting family
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in Irvine, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by divingmuff57
2 hours ago
29 [M4R] #Redlands - BWC looking for some attention
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in Redlands, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by SleeplessWestCoast
2 hours ago
32 [M4F] #Murrieta - I'm not afraid to... Fall... for someone this spooky season, what about you?
M4F M4F
in murrieta
to r/SoCalR4R by AlarmingBuffalo
3 hours ago
47 [M4M] #SanFernandoValley - Looking for a patient top
M4M M4M
in San Fernando Valley, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Acer51500
3 hours ago
25 [M4F] #SanDiego - looking for any ladies that want to lay back, relax and get worshipped😌
M4F M4F
in San Diego, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by dropitlikealcaraz
3 hours ago
40 [M4F] #Westlake - business trip trouble
M4F M4F
in Westlake
to r/SoCalR4R by sansxseraph98
3 hours ago
39 [m4f] #LA - Massage and MD for stressed out cutie
M4F M4F
in Maryland
to r/SoCalR4R by KissTheChef909
4 hours ago
26 [M4F] #Fontana - Thick BBC looking for some good head, possible fwb (Pics on profile)
M4F M4F
in Fontana, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by fitdocOC
5 hours ago
55 [M4F] #Anaheim - Athletic Hung DILF
M4F
in Anaheim, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Looking4FunIRL
5 hours ago
54 [M4F] #SantaClarita - Another Tuesday and I'm Still Looking For an Escape
M4F M4F
in Santa Clarita, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by twistedtheories-CA
6 hours ago
29 [M4F] #Redlands - single, attached or coupled to the front.
M4F
in Redlands, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Rstone3988
6 hours ago
39 [M4F] #Anaheim - White, 6’5, normal, clean, and respectful. Looking for a quality FWB who can match my appetite!
M4F M4F
in Anaheim, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Big_Beginning_1170
7 hours ago
31 [M4MF] #Irvine - Seeking to give therapeutic touch
M4MF Couples
in Irvine, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Clear-Control-5728
9 hours ago
30 [M4F] #SanDiego - FWB/ONS. Fun time, maybe a long time
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in San Diego, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by ElChorizoGuey
10 hours ago
30 [M4F] #Downey - Mexican-Guatemalan, 6'1," looking to go down on a woman
M4F M4F
in guatemala
to r/SoCalR4R by mrmysticmyth
14 hours ago
24 [M4M] #LosAngeles - hey looking for dick to please😋
M4M M4M
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by CurlyStachDaddyBeard
15 hours ago
39 [M4F] #JurupaValley - iso a cool chill female to play silent hill 2, alan wake etc and more with and watch scary movies wit and chill fwb style🎃
M4F M4F
in JurupaValley
to r/SoCalR4R by throwawayskrythe
17 hours ago
30 [M4F] #DTLA - Handsome, fit professional looking for low-pressure connection with younger woman
M4F M4F
in Downtown, LA
to r/SoCalR4R by Dawn_Wolf
18 hours ago
33 [M4F] #losangeles - Nothing to do on Halloween? Nerdy guy looking to find his goofball!
M4F
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Former_Diver8607
19 hours ago
29 [M4F] #Irvine - AP Broke my heart. Need a rebound.
M4F M4F
in Irvine, CA