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r/SoCalR4R

140,085 subscribers
R4R - The Southern California edition

Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, ride shares, hikers, concert partners, clubs, explorers, exercise pals, political rallies, entrepreneurs, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits [fwb] / casual encounters, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.

For Los Angeles, Orange County, San Diego, and surrounding areas

Moderators

Updated Oct 31, 2024
u/throwitalloutla Active
Added 6 years ago
Also moderates: r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/socalr4rverified
u/PotatoWedges Active
Added 5 years ago
Also moderates: r/socalr4rverified
u/ModeratelyHelpfulBot Active
Added 5 years ago
Also moderates: r/GFDpersonals, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/latinas, r/Hotwife, r/boobs, and 195 more...
u/wutwutindabuttbutt Active
Added 5 years ago
Also moderates: r/socalr4rverified
u/XanderAquinas Active
Added 5 years ago
Also moderates: r/socalr4rverified
u/FunInSanDiego Active
Added 3 years ago
Also moderates: r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/CuckqueanCommunity, r/socalr4rverified, r/SanDiegoR4R
u/anthongy Active
Added 3 years ago
Also moderates: r/socalr4rverified, r/Socalswingers
u/BlueC0NVERSE Active
Added 2 years ago
Also moderates: r/gonewild, r/TexasGW, r/GirlsinLaceFishnets, r/classysexy, r/BigBoobsGonewild, and 5 more...
u/XOTIC10 Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 16 hours ago
Also moderates: r/socalr4rverified
u/lilhotcheeto Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 16 hours ago
Also moderates: r/socalr4rverified
u/RedCheeksGuy Active
Added 7 months ago
Also moderates: r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob
u/hive-protect Active
Added 2 months ago
Also moderates: r/OhioHookups, r/Floridar4r, r/Jacksonviller4r, r/Bulges, r/Precum, and 88 more...

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

Verification Required

Effective 12/07/20, all users must be verified in order to post in this subreddit. If you are not verified, your post will be deleted.

2

Title Format

"Age [X4X] #City - Title"

3

Posting Requirements

Accounts must be more than 72 hours old.

All users must have at least 10 Post AND 10 Comment Karma to post or comment.

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

4

Post Limit

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

5

NSFW Flair

This community is set as a NSFW subreddit, so all posts are automatically tagged as NSFW.

6

No Identifying Information

No personal information such as social media, Snapchat, Kik usernames, or phone numbers are allowed in posts or comments. These must be exclusively shared through chat or PMs.

7

Absolutely No Exchanging Money/Sex For Any Legal/Illegal Content, Services, Objects, and/or Yourself

This includes OnlyFans, premium Snapchat, findom, and sugaring. Infractions will be immediately deleted, and the poster will be permabanned. This includes those that do not explicitly state it in their posts and/or on their profiles.

8

No Advertising

Advertisement of any type of event, service, chat room, or content is not allowed in posts or users' profiles.

9

No Illegal Activities

This includes drugs, prostitution, etc.

10

Harassment

There is absolutely zero tolerance for harassing other users or inciting violence. Just be a decent human being. It's really not that hard.

11

"Messaged u"

Stop commenting this shit on people's posts. They already know.

12

Reporting A User

If you are reporting another user for being a scammer, picture collector, fake, etc., you must message the modmail or one of the moderators individually and have some proof (screenshots). We cannot do anything if we can't follow up with the person who made the report.

13

18+ Only

This is an 18+ community only.

14

Catfish/Scammer

If you have proof that someone is catfishing/scamming, take a screenshot and send it to the mod team via modmail.

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to r/SoCalR4R by Rckshrder
26 minutes ago
35 [M4F] #HuntingtonBeach - Any women want to get eaten tonight
M4F M4F
in Huntington Beach, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by sphericalmess
26 minutes ago
30 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Happy Diwalloween!
M4F M4F
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Snoo21659
1 hour ago
30 [M4F] #Clairemont - Skinny flat chested girl wanted for boob play
M4F M4F
in Claremont, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by i_like_the_swing
1 hour ago
18 [M4A] #LagunaNiguel - newly 18 bottom looking to lose his virginity, preferably to a dominant couple but maybe to the right man or woman.
M4A M4R
in lagunaNiguel
to r/SoCalR4R by FrankieRoo
2 hours ago
39 [M4F] #burbank - looking for a short-term fling or FWB
M4F M4F
in Burbank, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by chz_brgr_frnch_frs
3 hours ago
27 [M4F] #LosAngeles - inexperieced korean looking for a teacher
M4F M4F
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Far-Preparation887
3 hours ago
31 [m4f] #LosAngeles - Inexperienced with Men? Have Questions? I’ll answer them
M4F M4F
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by 100Fowers
3 hours ago
26 [M4F] #Whittier - first responder coming home to LA/OC area this weekend after missing both Halloween and birthday, anyone wanna celebrate with a fun time and sexy date?
M4F M4F
in Whittier, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Brownhound_fet
3 hours ago
25 [M4F] #Irvine - Seeking a pillow princess to wrap her legs around me this spooky season ~
M4F M4F
in Irvine, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Deyganwolf
4 hours ago
52 [M4F] #Ventura - 6’2, Hung, Supremely Confident, Strict, Commanding Dominant Looking for a Submissive Girlfriend to Sexually Objectify in an Exclusive Relationship
M4F
in Ventura, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by muff_luver
5 hours ago
45 [M4F] #SealBeach - Erotic Massage 4 the Ladies!
M4F M4F
in SealBeach
to r/SoCalR4R by comeandt4keme
5 hours ago
37 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Lame Hinge date? Let me turn your night around…
M4F M4F
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by 711skincare
5 hours ago
33 [M4F] #Montebello - Sit on this lonely ghoul's face?
M4F M4F
in Montebello, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Zakroth9
5 hours ago
32 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - Looking to make a connection
M4F M4F
in Orange County, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Onecontrolfreak
6 hours ago
50 [M4f] #SanDiego - Halloween fun - you’ve got a slutty costume? Let’s meet up tonight
M4F M4F
in San Diego, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by KissTheChef909
7 hours ago
26 [M4F] #Fontana - Thick BBC looking for some good head, possible fwb (Pics on profile)
M4F M4F
in Fontana, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by ThrowAwayNickDTLA
7 hours ago
42 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Dodgers win, let’s celebrate!
M4F
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by arandomanimefan_
8 hours ago
18 [M4F] #Ontario - desperately trying to lose virginity
M4F M4F
in Ontario, Canada
to r/SoCalR4R by Zander29
9 hours ago
30 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Fit Trainer looking to connect
M4F M4F
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by CurlyStachDaddyBeard
12 hours ago
39 [M4F] #JurupaValley - happy halloween! iso a cool chill female to talk to, play scary games and watch scary movies with snuggles have chicken nuggies and chill fwb style🎃
M4F M4F
in JurupaValley
to r/SoCalR4R by TacosNSex
13 hours ago
28 [M4F] #SanDiego - Looking for a kinky shy girl to pound & cuddle 😏, fwb [PICS]
M4F
in PICS
to r/SoCalR4R by Ok-Link9871
14 hours ago
20 [M4M] #Burbank - kick back and enjoy a nice foot massage and worship this morning! College guy very into worshipping feet
M4M M4M
in Burbank, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by twistedtheories-CA
14 hours ago
29 [M4F] #Redlands - single, attached or coupled to the front.
M4F
in Redlands, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by ElChorizoGuey
15 hours ago
30 [M4F] #Downey - Mexican-Guatemalan, 6'1," looking to go down on a woman
M4F M4F
in guatemala
to r/SoCalR4R by sic4747
21 hours ago
23 [M4F] #losangeles - CnC Free Use
M4F M4F
in Los Angeles, CA