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r/SoCalR4R
139,898 subscribers
R4R - The Southern California edition

Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, ride shares, hikers, concert partners, clubs, explorers, exercise pals, political rallies, entrepreneurs, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits [fwb] / casual encounters, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.

For Los Angeles, Orange County, San Diego, and surrounding areas

SoCalR4R Moderators

Last updated: 10/20/2024
• throwitalloutla added 6 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/socalr4rverified)
• PotatoWedges added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• ModeratelyHelpfulBot added 5 years ago (also mods r/GFDpersonals, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/latinas, r/Hotwife, r/boobs, and 195 more...)
• wutwutindabuttbutt added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• XanderAquinas added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• FunInSanDiego added 3 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/CuckqueanCommunity, r/socalr4rverified, r/SanDiegoR4R)
• anthongy added 3 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified, r/Socalswingers)
• BlueC0NVERSE added 2 years ago (also mods r/gonewild, r/TexasGW, r/GirlsinLaceFishnets, r/classysexy, r/BigBoobsGonewild, and 5 more...)
• XOTIC10 added 1 year ago and removed 12 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• lilhotcheeto added 1 year ago and removed 12 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• RedCheeksGuy added 7 months ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob)
• hive-protect added 2 months ago (also mods r/OhioHookups, r/Floridar4r, r/Jacksonviller4r, r/Bulges, r/Precum, and 86 more...)

SoCalR4R Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• Verification Required

Effective 12/07/20, all users must be verified in order to post in this subreddit. If you are not verified, your post will be deleted.

• Title Format

"Age [X4X] #City - Title"

• Posting Requirements

Accounts must be more than 72 hours old.

All users must have at least 10 Post AND 10 Comment Karma to post or comment.

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• Post Limit

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• NSFW Flair

This community is set as a NSFW subreddit, so all posts are automatically tagged as NSFW.

• No Identifying Information

No personal information such as social media, Snapchat, Kik usernames, or phone numbers are allowed in posts or comments. These must be exclusively shared through chat or PMs.

• Absolutely No Exchanging Money/Sex For Any Legal/Illegal Content, Services, Objects, and/or Yourself

This includes OnlyFans, premium Snapchat, findom, and sugaring. Infractions will be immediately deleted, and the poster will be permabanned. This includes those that do not explicitly state it in their posts and/or on their profiles.

• No Advertising

Advertisement of any type of event, service, chat room, or content is not allowed in posts or users' profiles.

• No Illegal Activities

This includes drugs, prostitution, etc.

• Harassment

There is absolutely zero tolerance for harassing other users or inciting violence. Just be a decent human being. It's really not that hard.

• "Messaged u"

Stop commenting this shit on people's posts. They already know.

• Reporting A User

If you are reporting another user for being a scammer, picture collector, fake, etc., you must message the modmail or one of the moderators individually and have some proof (screenshots). We cannot do anything if we can't follow up with the person who made the report.

• 18+ Only

This is an 18+ community only.

• Catfish/Scammer

If you have proof that someone is catfishing/scamming, take a screenshot and send it to the mod team via modmail.

In the last day...
There have been 33 posts
By 33 authors
Top authors today @ r/SoCalR4R
ladystardusttttttt
Account Strength
50%
Account Age
10 months
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
416
Link Karma
164
Comment Karma
252
Profile updated: 4 days ago
Posts updated: 17 hours ago
Former_Diver8607
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
4 months
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
57
Link Karma
31
Comment Karma
26
Profile updated: 17 hours ago
Posts updated: 1 month ago
republiccityblue
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
1 year
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
369
Link Karma
311
Comment Karma
58
Profile updated: 7 hours ago
Posts updated: 2 hours ago
socalbro4fun
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
1 month
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
124
Link Karma
95
Comment Karma
29
Profile updated: 16 hours ago
Posts updated: 2 days ago
troycc412
Account Strength
60%
Account Age
3 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
160
Link Karma
132
Comment Karma
28
Profile updated: 3 days ago
Posts updated: 3 days ago
Snoo21659
Account Strength
100%
Account Age
4 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
Yes
Total Karma
34
Link Karma
14
Comment Karma
20
Profile updated: 1 day ago
Posts updated: 3 days ago
Emtahl
Account Strength
100%
Account Age
10 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
44,298
Link Karma
35,978
Comment Karma
7,676
Profile updated: 23 hours ago
EasyPiano5430
Account Strength
50%
Account Age
6 months
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
191
Link Karma
156
Comment Karma
35
Profile updated: 1 day ago
Posts updated: 6 hours ago
ElChorizoGuey
Account Strength
50%
Account Age
2 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
322
Link Karma
88
Comment Karma
234
Profile updated: 3 days ago
Posts updated: 2 days ago
J_arms
Account Strength
80%
Account Age
4 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
112
Link Karma
69
Comment Karma
43
Profile updated: 2 days ago
Posts updated: 6 days ago
 
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to r/SoCalR4R by Zakroth9
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32 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - Looking to make a connection
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in Orange County, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by AnnoymousPenguin
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to r/SoCalR4R by andyevans310
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to r/SoCalR4R by Curiosity2003
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to r/SoCalR4R by Dizzy_Method_3875
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35 [M4F] #Gardena - Los Angeles 310 AP/FWB WANTED something real and long term
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to r/SoCalR4R by thattallguy321
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in Whittier, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by TheCatboyChronicles
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to r/SoCalR4R by 711skincare
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33 [M4F] #Montebello - I need someone to use my face after I get off work.
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in Montebello, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by comeandt4keme
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37 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Bad Hinge Date? Let me turn your night around.
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in Los Angeles, CA
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30 [M4F] #Clairemont - Skinny flat chested girl wanted for boob play
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in Claremont, CA
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to r/SoCalR4R by socalbro4fun
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31 [M4M] #ManhattanBeach - Discreet bro looking for another discreet bro to hang out with, makeout, cuddle, & suck each other's cocks or let me suck on yours! Maybe fuck me too? Love muscles, rock hard cocks, cut cocks, BWC! Just looking for a chill bro to vibe with.
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to r/SoCalR4R by J_arms
12 hours ago
28 [M4F] #InlandEmpire - Looking for women who are gym rats that want a big dick for extra cardio
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in Inland Empire, CA
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