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r/SoCalR4R
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R4R - The Southern California edition

Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, ride shares, hikers, concert partners, clubs, explorers, exercise pals, political rallies, entrepreneurs, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits [fwb] / casual encounters, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.

For Los Angeles, Orange County, San Diego, and surrounding areas

SoCalR4R Moderators

Last updated: 10/17/2024
• throwitalloutla added 6 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/socalr4rverified)
• PotatoWedges added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• ModeratelyHelpfulBot added 5 years ago (also mods r/GFDpersonals, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/latinas, r/Hotwife, r/boobs, and 195 more...)
• wutwutindabuttbutt added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• XanderAquinas added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• FunInSanDiego added 3 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/CuckqueanCommunity, r/socalr4rverified, r/SanDiegoR4R)
• anthongy added 3 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified, r/Socalswingers)
• BlueC0NVERSE added 2 years ago (also mods r/gonewild, r/TexasGW, r/GirlsinLaceFishnets, r/classysexy, r/BigBoobsGonewild, and 5 more...)
• XOTIC10 added 1 year ago and removed 1 day ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• lilhotcheeto added 1 year ago and removed 1 day ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• RedCheeksGuy added 7 months ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob)
• hive-protect added 2 months ago (also mods r/OhioHookups, r/Floridar4r, r/Jacksonviller4r, r/Bulges, r/Precum, and 86 more...)

SoCalR4R Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• Verification Required

Effective 12/07/20, all users must be verified in order to post in this subreddit. If you are not verified, your post will be deleted.

• Title Format

"Age [X4X] #City - Title"

• Posting Requirements

Accounts must be more than 72 hours old.

All users must have at least 10 Post AND 10 Comment Karma to post or comment.

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• Post Limit

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• NSFW Flair

This community is set as a NSFW subreddit, so all posts are automatically tagged as NSFW.

• No Identifying Information

No personal information such as social media, Snapchat, Kik usernames, or phone numbers are allowed in posts or comments. These must be exclusively shared through chat or PMs.

• Absolutely No Exchanging Money/Sex For Any Legal/Illegal Content, Services, Objects, and/or Yourself

This includes OnlyFans, premium Snapchat, findom, and sugaring. Infractions will be immediately deleted, and the poster will be permabanned. This includes those that do not explicitly state it in their posts and/or on their profiles.

• No Advertising

Advertisement of any type of event, service, chat room, or content is not allowed in posts or users' profiles.

• No Illegal Activities

This includes drugs, prostitution, etc.

• Harassment

There is absolutely zero tolerance for harassing other users or inciting violence. Just be a decent human being. It's really not that hard.

• "Messaged u"

Stop commenting this shit on people's posts. They already know.

• Reporting A User

If you are reporting another user for being a scammer, picture collector, fake, etc., you must message the modmail or one of the moderators individually and have some proof (screenshots). We cannot do anything if we can't follow up with the person who made the report.

• 18+ Only

This is an 18+ community only.

• Catfish/Scammer

If you have proof that someone is catfishing/scamming, take a screenshot and send it to the mod team via modmail.

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Top authors today @ r/SoCalR4R
liberiangirll22
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40%
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1 week
Verified Email
Yes
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No
Total Karma
91
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71
Comment Karma
20
Profile updated: 17 hours ago
ollie_oxenfr33
Account Strength
50%
Account Age
1 month
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
1,052
Link Karma
72
Comment Karma
980
Profile updated: 2 days ago
Posts updated: 21 hours ago
Sea_Eggplant_3983
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
4 months
Verified Email
Yes
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No
Total Karma
43
Link Karma
24
Comment Karma
19
Profile updated: 4 days ago
Posts updated: 16 hours ago
republiccityblue
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
1 year
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
352
Link Karma
294
Comment Karma
58
Profile updated: 4 days ago
Posts updated: 2 days ago
theworsthades
Account Strength
100%
Account Age
6 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
Yes
Total Karma
51,979
Link Karma
880
Comment Karma
49,171
Profile updated: 5 days ago
Posts updated: 9 months ago
Iam_JaeX
Account Strength
100%
Account Age
4 months
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
Yes
Total Karma
223
Link Karma
202
Comment Karma
21
Profile updated: 10 hours ago
Posts updated: 5 days ago
BeardnTattoos32
Account Strength
10%
Account Age
5 months
Verified Email
No
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
124
Link Karma
99
Comment Karma
25
Profile updated: 21 hours ago
Posts updated: 1 day ago
shipwrekd_sailor
Account Strength
100%
Account Age
2 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
15,663
Link Karma
292
Comment Karma
15,308
Profile updated: 6 days ago
Posts updated: 3 days ago
SCVdaddy4A
Account Strength
70%
Account Age
3 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
88
Link Karma
34
Comment Karma
54
Profile updated: 3 days ago
Posts updated: 4 days ago
Training_Wolf5028
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50%
Account Age
3 months
Verified Email
Yes
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No
Total Karma
194
Link Karma
151
Comment Karma
43
Profile updated: 1 day ago
Posts updated: 6 hours ago
 
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to r/SoCalR4R by 30sblondeguy
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40 [M4F] #pasadena - Birthday HJ
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in Pasadena, Ca
to r/SoCalR4R by J_arms
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to r/SoCalR4R by roadtoriches
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to r/SoCalR4R by Zander29
2 hours ago
30 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Muscular & Fit looking for fun
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in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by TheMrCasey
2 hours ago
45 [M4F] #LongBeach - 6'2, bearded, dirty old man is planning a walk along the beach. Meet me and get groped
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in Long Beach, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by twistedtheories-CA
3 hours ago
29 [M4F] #Redlands - single, attached or coupled to the front.
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in Redlands, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by 626SGVGuy
3 hours ago
45 [M4F] #Pasadena - Looking for next AP
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in Pasadena, Ca
to r/SoCalR4R by ElChorizoGuey
6 hours ago
30 [M4F] #Downey - Mexican-Guatemalan, 6'1," looking to go down on a woman
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to r/SoCalR4R by BluishHearts
11 hours ago
43 [M4F] #LosAngeles - I Want a Faithful, Intelligent, Pretty, Young Lady Who Wants a Romantic Relationship, Receiving Pleasures, Praise Kinks, Oral Edging, Making Love, All Day & Night
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in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by SCVdaddy4A
12 hours ago
32 [M4R] #scv - Easygoing, Kinky top 4 bottom
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in Santa Clarita, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Kingcrims0n__
12 hours ago
25 [M4F] #Norwalk - Any chubby/big girls looking for fun?
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in Norwalk
to r/SoCalR4R by Iberri
12 hours ago
24 [M4R] #Corona - Looking for host for BWC
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in Corona, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by wreck_it_ralph_1234
12 hours ago
32 [M4FM] #Riverside - experienced bull looking for a fun, chill couple
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in Riverside, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by chorizomalo
12 hours ago
25 [M4F] #Pasadena - Pleasurer Looking for a Brat
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in Pasadena, Ca
to r/SoCalR4R by GayBoy7689
13 hours ago
20 [M4M] #Torrance - Are you a Straight Guy & Horny to Fuck a Tight Asian Mixed Gay Boy Ass to Release a Load
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in Torrance, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by republiccityblue
14 hours ago
36 [m4m] #orangecounty - thicc chubby total bottom hosting fun lowkey top this weekend
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in Orange County, CA
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34 [M4F] #LosAngeles - A cozy evening in binging movies and cuddling the night away
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in Los Angeles, CA
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14 hours ago
53 [M4F] #Anaheim - sensual massage, no strings attached
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in Anaheim, CA
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15 hours ago
34 [M4F] #inlandempire - Looking for a fun, gorgeous woman
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in Inland Empire, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Cali4fun22
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39 [m4f] #murrieta - cute latina or WF wanted for ongoing by black M
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to r/SoCalR4R by fitdocOC
15 hours ago
55 [M4F] #Anaheim - Athletic Divorced DILF
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in Anaheim, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Iam_JaeX
16 hours ago
28 [M4F] #InlandEmpire - Amazing 9 inch dick. Looking for a woman who absolutely loves to give head. CAN HOST
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in Inland Empire, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by sauronsays01
16 hours ago
23 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Fulfill your wildest fantasies
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in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by LaputaHummingbird
16 hours ago
25 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - I'm emotionally avaliable and have the time to talk to you.
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in Orange County, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by DifficultIntention1
17 hours ago
35 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Iā€™d love to give you a massage
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in Los Angeles, CA