Updated specific locations to be searchable, take a look at Las Vegas as an example.
Southern California
r/SoCalR4R
139,648 subscribers
R4R - The Southern California edition

Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, ride shares, hikers, concert partners, clubs, explorers, exercise pals, political rallies, entrepreneurs, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits [fwb] / casual encounters, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.

For Los Angeles, Orange County, San Diego, and surrounding areas

SoCalR4R Moderators

Last updated: 10/09/2024
• throwitalloutla added 6 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/socalr4rverified)
• PotatoWedges added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• ModeratelyHelpfulBot added 5 years ago (also mods r/GFDpersonals, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/latinas, r/Hotwife, r/boobs, and 195 more...)
• wutwutindabuttbutt added 4 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• XanderAquinas added 4 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• FunInSanDiego added 3 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/CuckqueanCommunity, r/socalr4rverified, r/SanDiegoR4R)
• anthongy added 3 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified, r/Socalswingers)
• BlueC0NVERSE added 2 years ago (also mods r/gonewild, r/TexasGW, r/GirlsinLaceFishnets, r/classysexy, r/BigBoobsGonewild, and 5 more...)
• XOTIC10 added 1 year ago and removed 30 minutes ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• lilhotcheeto added 1 year ago and removed 30 minutes ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• RedCheeksGuy added 6 months ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob)
• hive-protect added 2 months ago (also mods r/OhioHookups, r/Floridar4r, r/Jacksonviller4r, r/Bulges, r/Precum, and 85 more...)

SoCalR4R Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• Verification Required

Effective 12/07/20, all users must be verified in order to post in this subreddit. If you are not verified, your post will be deleted.

• Title Format

"Age [X4X] #City - Title"

• Posting Requirements

Accounts must be more than 72 hours old.

All users must have at least 10 Post AND 10 Comment Karma to post or comment.

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• Post Limit

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• NSFW Flair

This community is set as a NSFW subreddit, so all posts are automatically tagged as NSFW.

• No Identifying Information

No personal information such as social media, Snapchat, Kik usernames, or phone numbers are allowed in posts or comments. These must be exclusively shared through chat or PMs.

• Absolutely No Exchanging Money/Sex For Any Legal/Illegal Content, Services, Objects, and/or Yourself

This includes OnlyFans, premium Snapchat, findom, and sugaring. Infractions will be immediately deleted, and the poster will be permabanned. This includes those that do not explicitly state it in their posts and/or on their profiles.

• No Advertising

Advertisement of any type of event, service, chat room, or content is not allowed in posts or users' profiles.

• No Illegal Activities

This includes drugs, prostitution, etc.

• Harassment

There is absolutely zero tolerance for harassing other users or inciting violence. Just be a decent human being. It's really not that hard.

• "Messaged u"

Stop commenting this shit on people's posts. They already know.

• Reporting A User

If you are reporting another user for being a scammer, picture collector, fake, etc., you must message the modmail or one of the moderators individually and have some proof (screenshots). We cannot do anything if we can't follow up with the person who made the report.

• 18+ Only

This is an 18+ community only.

• Catfish/Scammer

If you have proof that someone is catfishing/scamming, take a screenshot and send it to the mod team via modmail.

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to r/SoCalR4R by Deyganwolf
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to r/SoCalR4R by aznbbtm
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33 [m4m] #irvine - coming home from a long trip tomorrow and NEED some fun
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to r/SoCalR4R by Powerful-Button3068
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24 [M4F] #LosAngeles - looking for a mature women or married lady
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to r/SoCalR4R by KissTheChef909
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26 [M4F] #Fontana - Thick BBC looking for some good head, possible fwb (Pics on profile)
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to r/SoCalR4R by samsameer6868
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45 [M4F] #Temecula - Give out some attention
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to r/SoCalR4R by SuperSaltyKind
3 hours ago
45 [M4F] #WestLA - Ol’Fashioned Fuck Buddies
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to r/SoCalR4R by Haakenn
4 hours ago
23 [M4F] #sandiego - Scottish lad visiting and wanting to taste an American girl, going to LA soon
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to r/SoCalR4R by Rckshrder
6 hours ago
35 [M4F] #HuntingtonBeach - Smoke you out (420) then eat you out
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to r/SoCalR4R by CurlyStachDaddyBeard
6 hours ago
39 [M4F] #Riverside - daddybear looking for a sub/little /pet for a short to long term dynamic but forever friendship
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to r/SoCalR4R by Successful-Relative4
8 hours ago
22 [M4F] #BeverlyHills - Latino looking for nothing serious
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to r/SoCalR4R by ElChorizoGuey
9 hours ago
30 [M4F] #Downey - half Guatemalan half Mexican, 6'1," looking to go down on a woman
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to r/SoCalR4R by EveryEnigma
13 hours ago
31 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Lonely goth boy looking to flirt and fool around
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to r/SoCalR4R by Blanxkc
14 hours ago
31 [M4F] #fountainvalley - Rock Climbing and afterwards climb each other
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to r/SoCalR4R by NinjaxAssassin
14 hours ago
33 [M4F] #Temecula - Pechanga Casino
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to r/SoCalR4R by sauronsays01
16 hours ago
23 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Fulfill your fantasy here (or just have sex that’s cool too)
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to r/SoCalR4R by ThrowAwayNickDTLA
18 hours ago
42 [M4F] #LosAngeles - New friends? Let’s do it!
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to r/SoCalR4R by fisharefriends9
19 hours ago
30 [M4F] #SanDiego - New job, new city, new friends?
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to r/SoCalR4R by vesperwildcatmeow
19 hours ago
38 [M4F] #NorthOC - Looking to blow off some steam with a juicy MILF
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to r/SoCalR4R by GayBoy7689
19 hours ago
20 [M4M] #Torrance - Are you a Straight Guy & Horny to Try Anal with an Asian Mixed Gay Boy to Release some Stress
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to r/SoCalR4R by malekithrowaway
20 hours ago
39 [M4M] #pasadena - DVP stamina training with pussy toy
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to r/SoCalR4R by Iam_JaeX
21 hours ago
28 [M4F] #InlandEmpire - 9 inches. Looking for a submissive size queen who loves giving amazing head
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to r/SoCalR4R by roadtoriches
22 hours ago
30 [M4F] #Irvine - Fit guy 💪 with abs and the prettiest BWC you've ever seen! Need a new long term fwb
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to r/SoCalR4R by ChillValDaddy
22 hours ago
39 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Looking for a date for my holiday office party. Going to maestro’s steak house
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to r/SoCalR4R by Curiosity2003
22 hours ago
21 [M4MF] #Cerritos - I have an apartment to myself, come over and let's have some fun! Looking for some fun new experiences with a couple or single woman who won't flake!
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