Updated specific locations to be searchable, take a look at Las Vegas as an example.
Southern California
r/SoCalR4R
139,487 subscribers
R4R - The Southern California edition

Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, ride shares, hikers, concert partners, clubs, explorers, exercise pals, political rallies, entrepreneurs, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits [fwb] / casual encounters, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.

For Los Angeles, Orange County, San Diego, and surrounding areas

SoCalR4R Moderators

Last updated: 10/03/2024
• throwitalloutla added 6 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/socalr4rverified)
• PotatoWedges added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• ModeratelyHelpfulBot added 5 years ago (also mods r/GFDpersonals, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/latinas, r/Hotwife, r/boobs, and 195 more...)
• wutwutindabuttbutt added 4 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• XanderAquinas added 4 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• FunInSanDiego added 3 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/CuckqueanCommunity, r/socalr4rverified, r/SanDiegoR4R)
• anthongy added 3 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified, r/Socalswingers)
• BlueC0NVERSE added 2 years ago (also mods r/gonewild, r/TexasGW, r/GirlsinLaceFishnets, r/classysexy, r/BigBoobsGonewild, and 5 more...)
• XOTIC10 added 1 year ago and removed 1 day ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• lilhotcheeto added 1 year ago and removed 1 day ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• RedCheeksGuy added 6 months ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob)
• hive-protect added 1 month ago (also mods r/OhioHookups, r/Floridar4r, r/Jacksonviller4r, r/Bulges, r/Precum, and 82 more...)

SoCalR4R Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• Verification Required

Effective 12/07/20, all users must be verified in order to post in this subreddit. If you are not verified, your post will be deleted.

• Title Format

"Age [X4X] #City - Title"

• Posting Requirements

Accounts must be more than 72 hours old.

All users must have at least 10 Post AND 10 Comment Karma to post or comment.

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• Post Limit

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• NSFW Flair

This community is set as a NSFW subreddit, so all posts are automatically tagged as NSFW.

• No Identifying Information

No personal information such as social media, Snapchat, Kik usernames, or phone numbers are allowed in posts or comments. These must be exclusively shared through chat or PMs.

• Absolutely No Exchanging Money/Sex For Any Legal/Illegal Content, Services, Objects, and/or Yourself

This includes OnlyFans, premium Snapchat, findom, and sugaring. Infractions will be immediately deleted, and the poster will be permabanned. This includes those that do not explicitly state it in their posts and/or on their profiles.

• No Advertising

Advertisement of any type of event, service, chat room, or content is not allowed in posts or users' profiles.

• No Illegal Activities

This includes drugs, prostitution, etc.

• Harassment

There is absolutely zero tolerance for harassing other users or inciting violence. Just be a decent human being. It's really not that hard.

• "Messaged u"

Stop commenting this shit on people's posts. They already know.

• Reporting A User

If you are reporting another user for being a scammer, picture collector, fake, etc., you must message the modmail or one of the moderators individually and have some proof (screenshots). We cannot do anything if we can't follow up with the person who made the report.

• 18+ Only

This is an 18+ community only.

• Catfish/Scammer

If you have proof that someone is catfishing/scamming, take a screenshot and send it to the mod team via modmail.

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GayBoy7689
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to r/SoCalR4R by Clear-Control-5728
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30 [M4F] #SanDiego - FWB/ONS. Fun time, maybe a long time
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to r/SoCalR4R by Pristine-Way8124
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28 [M4F] #SanDiego - looking for anr and abf I am
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to r/SoCalR4R by laocsd
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33 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - FWB needed 1-2x a month
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to r/SoCalR4R by Final-Pickle-8055
1 hour ago
23 [m4m] #oceanside - white bottom for watersports
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to r/SoCalR4R by Far-Preparation887
1 hour ago
31 [m4f] #LosAngeles - Inexperienced with Men? Have Questions? I’ll answer them
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to r/SoCalR4R by KGSB
2 hours ago
27 [M4F] #Northridge - Fit Latino looking for ongoing NSA/FWB
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to r/SoCalR4R by fonyrobbins
3 hours ago
35 [M4F] #Westhollywood - nice BWC
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to r/SoCalR4R by roadtoriches
3 hours ago
30 [M4F] #Irvine - Fit guy 💪 with abs and the prettiest BWC you've ever seen! Need a new long term Asian or Latina fwb in my life
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to r/SoCalR4R by Unlisted12345
4 hours ago
44 [M4F] #LosAngeles - I've developed a thing for younger women, and I need to see how bad it has gotten
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to r/SoCalR4R by socalvthrowaway
4 hours ago
34 [M4F] #Downey - Looking for someone with the same hobbies. Open to a long term relationship or even short term.
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to r/SoCalR4R by Successful-Relative4
4 hours ago
22 [M4F] #WestLa - Latino looking for a one time thing
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to r/SoCalR4R by Specialist-Creme4584
4 hours ago
50 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Culver City - Discreet Workplace Seduction?
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to r/SoCalR4R by singleandlonelyfuck
5 hours ago
24 [M4F] #Fullerton - tongue fuck?
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to r/SoCalR4R by FrankieRoo
6 hours ago
39 [M4F] #burbank - looking for a short-term fling or FWB
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to r/SoCalR4R by Denvermassage
6 hours ago
39 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Massage Therapy student looking for practice subjects.
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to r/SoCalR4R by theredandgrey
6 hours ago
45 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Just a normal guy who really needs to have some fun.
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to r/SoCalR4R by jeantean
7 hours ago
23 [M4M] #CostaMesa - Looking for masculine tops!!
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to r/SoCalR4R by AquaFrenzyB
9 hours ago
22 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Foot Fetish, Looking to worship someone’s feet!
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to r/SoCalR4R by ImprovementSuch9980
9 hours ago
30 [M4MF] #Riverside - bbc interested in watching couple
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to r/SoCalR4R by Looking4FunIRL
9 hours ago
54 [M4F] #SantaClarita - Any Ladies Want to Make Friday a Fun Day?
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to r/SoCalR4R by Jedi26000
10 hours ago
51 [M4F] #northridge - older man looking for young fit athletic kinky woman for ongoing fwb
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to r/SoCalR4R by ElChorizoGuey
15 hours ago
30 [M4F] #Downey - half Guatemalan half Mexican, 6'1," looking to go down on a woman
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to r/SoCalR4R by lonelytonight6
16 hours ago
33 [M4F] #Noho - I’m having a long night at the office and I’d love some company and attention. Care to chat?
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to r/SoCalR4R by banana_jun
17 hours ago
29 [M4F] #SanDiego - cuddles and movies
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to r/SoCalR4R by throwawayxocx
19 hours ago
29 [M4F] #santaana - ride my Mexican/Filipino cock or face
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