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r/SoCalR4R
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R4R - The Southern California edition

Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, ride shares, hikers, concert partners, clubs, explorers, exercise pals, political rallies, entrepreneurs, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits [fwb] / casual encounters, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.

For Los Angeles, Orange County, San Diego, and surrounding areas

SoCalR4R Moderators

Last updated: 10/25/2024
• throwitalloutla added 6 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/socalr4rverified)
• PotatoWedges added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• ModeratelyHelpfulBot added 5 years ago (also mods r/GFDpersonals, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/latinas, r/Hotwife, r/boobs, and 195 more...)
• wutwutindabuttbutt added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• XanderAquinas added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• FunInSanDiego added 3 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/CuckqueanCommunity, r/socalr4rverified, r/SanDiegoR4R)
• anthongy added 3 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified, r/Socalswingers)
• BlueC0NVERSE added 2 years ago (also mods r/gonewild, r/TexasGW, r/GirlsinLaceFishnets, r/classysexy, r/BigBoobsGonewild, and 5 more...)
• XOTIC10 added 1 year ago and removed 12 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• lilhotcheeto added 1 year ago and removed 12 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• RedCheeksGuy added 7 months ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob)
• hive-protect added 2 months ago (also mods r/OhioHookups, r/Floridar4r, r/Jacksonviller4r, r/Bulges, r/Precum, and 88 more...)

SoCalR4R Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• Verification Required

Effective 12/07/20, all users must be verified in order to post in this subreddit. If you are not verified, your post will be deleted.

• Title Format

"Age [X4X] #City - Title"

• Posting Requirements

Accounts must be more than 72 hours old.

All users must have at least 10 Post AND 10 Comment Karma to post or comment.

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• Post Limit

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• NSFW Flair

This community is set as a NSFW subreddit, so all posts are automatically tagged as NSFW.

• No Identifying Information

No personal information such as social media, Snapchat, Kik usernames, or phone numbers are allowed in posts or comments. These must be exclusively shared through chat or PMs.

• Absolutely No Exchanging Money/Sex For Any Legal/Illegal Content, Services, Objects, and/or Yourself

This includes OnlyFans, premium Snapchat, findom, and sugaring. Infractions will be immediately deleted, and the poster will be permabanned. This includes those that do not explicitly state it in their posts and/or on their profiles.

• No Advertising

Advertisement of any type of event, service, chat room, or content is not allowed in posts or users' profiles.

• No Illegal Activities

This includes drugs, prostitution, etc.

• Harassment

There is absolutely zero tolerance for harassing other users or inciting violence. Just be a decent human being. It's really not that hard.

• "Messaged u"

Stop commenting this shit on people's posts. They already know.

• Reporting A User

If you are reporting another user for being a scammer, picture collector, fake, etc., you must message the modmail or one of the moderators individually and have some proof (screenshots). We cannot do anything if we can't follow up with the person who made the report.

• 18+ Only

This is an 18+ community only.

• Catfish/Scammer

If you have proof that someone is catfishing/scamming, take a screenshot and send it to the mod team via modmail.

In the last day...
There have been 40 posts
By 40 authors
Top authors today @ r/SoCalR4R
NymphoNerd13
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
3 months
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
61
Link Karma
51
Comment Karma
10
Profile updated: 4 days ago
Posts updated: 1 week ago
perverseKinematics
Account Strength
100%
Account Age
12 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
Yes
Total Karma
69
Link Karma
42
Comment Karma
27
Profile updated: 1 day ago
Posts updated: 5 days ago
theknottymommaca01
Account Strength
30%
Account Age
2 weeks
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
224
Link Karma
81
Comment Karma
143
Profile updated: 1 day ago
kukudasss
Account Strength
90%
Account Age
4 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
77
Link Karma
63
Comment Karma
14
Profile updated: 5 days ago
Posts updated: 3 days ago
sad-cow03
Account Strength
70%
Account Age
4 years
Verified Email
No
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
3,052
Link Karma
1,681
Comment Karma
1,242
Profile updated: 3 days ago
Posts updated: 1 day ago
sauronsays01
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
5 months
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
202
Link Karma
117
Comment Karma
85
Profile updated: 4 days ago
Posts updated: 1 day ago
Curiosity2003
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
1 year
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
51
Link Karma
27
Comment Karma
24
Profile updated: 4 days ago
Posts updated: 2 days ago
ImpatientCucumber
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
1 year
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
64
Link Karma
10
Comment Karma
54
Profile updated: 4 days ago
Posts updated: 2 days ago
throwawayxocx
Account Strength
50%
Account Age
5 months
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
161
Link Karma
134
Comment Karma
27
Profile updated: 1 day ago
Posts updated: 9 hours ago
Gaga4goggins
Account Strength
20%
Account Age
5 months
Verified Email
No
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
952
Link Karma
128
Comment Karma
824
Profile updated: 2 days ago
Posts updated: 16 hours ago
 
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to r/SoCalR4R by sad-cow03
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21 [M4F] #LosAngeles - 5’7 fit pics on profile
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in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Big_Beginning_1170
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31 [M4MF] #Irvine - Seeking to give therapeutic touch
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to r/SoCalR4R by Rstone3988
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39 [M4F] #Irvine - White, 6’5, normal, clean, and respectful. Looking for a quality FWB who can match my appetite!
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23 [M4F] #Irvine - Drain me on my lunch break, I’m hard now wanna see? ;)
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to r/SoCalR4R by socalbro4fun
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to r/SoCalR4R by Kingcrims0n__
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25 [M4F] #Norwalk - Looking for a chubby/big girl to have fun with?
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in Norwalk
to r/SoCalR4R by boybust
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33 [M4F] #losangeles - Nerdy half asian straight switchy guy looking for a girl whose curious about exploring ballbusting
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in Los Angeles, CA
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42 [M4F] #Anaheim - Let's go to the Halloween store
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in Anaheim, CA
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21 [M4F] #LosAngeles - 5’7 fit pics on profile
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in Los Angeles, CA
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23 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - Experienced pussy eater looking for NSA FWB - with a twist
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in Orange County, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by domyouheh
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29 [m4m] #sandiego - CD for M looking to explore being dom fem with pic on profile.
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23 [M4M] #CostaMesa - Looking for masculine tops!!
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in Costa Mesa, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by SirSconesALot
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40 [M4F] #Irvine - Married D-type looking for s-type who craves giving up control
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in Irvine, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Gaga4goggins
16 hours ago
45 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Do you wanna meet IRL? Communicate? Make stupid jokes? Geek out as much as kink out? Does this work? Let's give it a try
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in Los Angeles, CA
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29 [M4F] #orangecounty - horny photographer hosting rn
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in Orange County, CA
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